The Conscious Man- Mens Coach
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KitterKat :
Don't ignore me all day and then wait until bedtime when Im utterly exhausted to ask more of me
2026-02-13 07:51:45
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~ Gigi Needs Coffee ~ :
If your acts of kindness are driven by an ulterior motive, then they are not acts of kindness, they are a form of manipulation that says “I did this for you, so you owe me that” - - The fact that this person keeps a running “tab“ of all the things they’ve done during the day that should add up to being entitled to some reciprocity in the form of intimacy is exactly why women don’t respond. If you reduce intimacy to being a transactional enterprise between you and your partner, then don’t be surprised when your partner is unmotivated. Genuine acts of caring and kindness do not feel transactional.
2026-02-14 04:40:55
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PNWJewl :
Two words. Emotional safety. When women feel emotionally safe, we are much more likely to open up our bodies. I would add to that foreplay is not just about five minutes of playfulness before the act it’s something that can be done all day long through cute text messages and gentle touch and kisses and thoughtfulness and compliment. 100% agree with your message. Marriage isn’t about quid pro quo.
2026-02-12 22:41:21
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Melissa ♡ :
dont make me into your mother and expect me to treat you like my husband. I shouldn't be raising my husband along side my kids.
2026-03-06 13:50:10
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J :
I'm so tired of a transactional marriage.
2026-02-16 17:36:04
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Angela Noble777 :
I don’t like being ignored all day or not being romantic at all throughout the day then as soon as it gets dark I’m supposed to just turn on and perform.
2026-02-16 03:51:56
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Intimacy & Libido Coach :
Being taken care of and feeling wanted are two very different emotional experiences
2026-02-17 15:11:53
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Oh hi it’s me :
It’s not that women don’t like it. No emotional connection with you/FROM you means I am not driven to physically connect with you.
2026-02-14 00:02:32
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High Vibin Deep Diver :
You’re supposed to feel satisfied with giving. Not asking “what can I get out of this?”
2026-02-13 19:49:45
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Leslie Stephenson :
I had this conversation with my husband last night. he likes to list off the things he does (load of laundry, take out trash, etc) in case "I dont notice". I said so, do I need to start listing everything I do, since you dont seem to notice??
2026-02-13 22:03:12
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Ambmb ❌️ :
got told I had to initiate twice a week minimum.... and it never happened again.
2026-02-13 01:05:04
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فاليري :
One thing I learned from The Forbidden Codex of Influence by Julian Voss is that attraction isn’t about trying harder… it is about understanding psychology.
2026-03-26 19:12:20
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HuddlestonHomestead-ish :
We have a house full of kids. He ignores me all day. Bedtime is chaotic. He just waits in bed and just expects me to be “ready” 😂
2026-02-16 19:39:04
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the.gen.brace :
Chores are not currency.
2026-02-13 23:37:47
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Lea Marie 💕 :
She’s doing it because those things need to be done.
2026-02-13 01:30:54
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Chandra :
When you are doing something “for me” that you expect something in return, it’s joy for me it’s for you. My ex tried ALL the tricks, he suddenly wanted to “serve” me, but the second he didn’t get the response he hoped for he was done and he was whining about it. It wasn’t for me it was all for him.
2026-02-13 23:39:06
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selah_tetelestai :
We want connection. Emotional connection. Mental connection that goes beyond plans and agendas for the day. We want Touch that doesn’t lead to more. Listen to us without defending and blaming or attacking us, or trying to “fix” it all of the time…
2026-02-20 17:06:02
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•❌️♡NeTTeRs♡❌️• :
Transactional acts do not work.
2026-02-17 10:02:29
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jessicaoakes22 :
I do thing's out of love as of he does them expecting in return which doesn't make a woman feel loved or respected just feel like I'm there just to be a body to be used whenever he wants definitely don't make me feel loved or attractive bc that starts making a woman also insecure thinking if you don't put out when he wants better keep a eye on him to eventually stray and be unfaithful bc he treats the relationship like im only there for his wants and needs .
2026-02-13 07:33:55
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Ellie.designs.la :
If it’s something you would have to do if you lived alone, it’s not helping. You. Live. There. Too. It doesn’t deserve to be rewarded. It’s just life.
2026-02-18 21:46:43
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Flawlessimperfektion :
She has to feel “safe” in who she is “WITH YOU”, if she doesn’t, you’re done. True Intimacy happens completely when she feels “SAFE”, and I am not talking about just the physicality of safe in this context I am talking about mentally, spiritually, emotionally and physically! Be the person that literally “Holds all of her, and she will Hold all of you” in the same way.
2026-02-20 17:56:05
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Bwell :
Amen! Thank you. My husband understands this well.
2026-02-12 22:56:53
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Shorty35 :
So true
2026-03-16 18:20:22
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Sweet Melissa :
Truth
2026-03-06 20:43:53
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Laurie :
Amen
2026-03-31 19:54:21
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