@daughters.healing: Narcissist and borderline mothers turn their children against each other to gain control, create further division, and deflect the real source of dysfunction in the family. #narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissisticfamilysystem #narcissisticmother #borderlinemother

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lucindaburke0222
lucindaburke0222 :
What’s worse is my mother turned a blind eye when my sibling physically abused me. Sibling abuse is a thing.
2026-02-13 18:06:52
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catherineflores54
catherineflores549 :
they ruined every kind of relationship. my Mom tries to turn my own daughter against me.
2026-02-22 02:38:19
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dwashington596
D :
My mother did that
2026-02-13 17:33:07
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maureenbauer85
maureenbauer85 :
YUP!!! My mother used her children as her own personal fight club.
2026-02-21 18:43:15
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sweetpea1513
sweetpea :
I see you met my mother❤️
2026-02-13 22:15:10
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catnap2865
CatNap :
As adult children, my Mother was still trying to triangulate us for YEARS!! So toxic and dysfunctional! She would always say it was up to us kids to work it out..that it was between us, not her!
2026-02-18 13:19:26
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crazeemama111163
Crazeemama111163 :
And then when she’s leaving this world she insists you “promise”her that you will not fight & all get along & then leaves “memories” that perpetuate the division by grossly favoring the golden child.🤦‍♀️
2026-02-19 16:27:53
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kelly.smith1515
Kelly Smith (Nilla) :
My mom 100%
2026-02-13 07:30:02
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3cmrgn
3c :
Yup! My mother always throws the rocks, then hides her hands. Triangulation is one of her best tools.
2026-02-17 03:43:15
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robynkam03
RobynKam :
Does this go for fathers too?
2026-02-19 22:14:36
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carolin_1052
🍂🍁carolin52🍁🍂 :
My mother did thing among us 5 siblings. No one talks to the other now. Sad but true.
2026-02-13 03:16:11
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quinndanielle0
Quinn Danielle :
yep my mom 100%
2026-02-16 01:52:24
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mistydawn0045
Mrs. MJ🏀🌷🪻 :
Both of my husbands parents did that to him! Even in his adulthood.
2026-02-12 23:59:25
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vangoghyourownway
VanGoghYourOwnWay :
I literally just had a very rough conversation with my mother three days ago about this. I called her out on her behavior. I told her that she is creating the division between my brother and I and the reason that he and I are no longer in communication is through her doing. She didn’t say one word.
2026-02-16 11:34:22
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mainstreetlovesboulevard
🙋‍♀️mainstreetlovesboulevard :
My sister was the Good child. I was the bad child. I was always told can’t you be more like your sister. & oh the verbal abuse was so mean ! No contact was the best I could do for ME .
2026-02-14 14:46:00
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theeducatorsdaughter
Pink Hand Retreat :
I just laid on my bed one day with tears saying to myself she took everything away from me once she gets to your siblings all your nieces and nephews belong to her too she’ll use them to get to your children it’s so twisted confusing isolating I know all about it
2026-02-15 00:22:24
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x_tina_energy
X_Tina_Mia :
I was made to parent at a very young age left alone w two much younger her siblings and when I disciplined as I saw her do I was then “disciplined” so not only used for free labor but abused when I did not know what or how to handle adult situations
2026-02-12 22:02:23
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catherineflores54
catherineflores549 :
my mom has always favored my brother. so when she mentioned about when she gets much older that we will all take care of her and I told her well my brother can take care of you she said she didn't just have one she had three and I said yes but my brother is your favorite so have him take care of you.😈
2026-02-22 02:44:54
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dangodangomochi
dangodangomochi :
My sister beat me up so bad I had a seizure and was put to the hospital. The doctor asked why I had bruises on my face, my mom begged me to not tell the doctors what happened. I did, but the doctors didn’t care because my mother said I was a brat at home and deserved it. Ever since then I never depended on my mother nor my siblings
2026-03-02 17:32:06
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devilynorseskeart_backup
Devilyn | Artist :
my oldest sister behaved this way
2026-02-15 01:39:50
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jesuslovesyoumost
Bridgett Eileen :
My mom literally tells her family not to talk to me and my aunts would tell me to keep it secret if we spoke. She definitely trained my brother to hate me too. I’ve never wronged any of them.
2026-03-08 17:45:24
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crisy355
crisy355 :
If u chose to go against yr sibling and watched yr parent torture yr sibling, then as adults it has to be talked out that u recognised the suffering. Both my sisters carried on the hate.
2026-03-08 14:45:37
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kdmoralez
kdmoralez :
My father does this and my mother just allows it and doesn’t interfere
2026-02-23 15:28:38
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victoriawilson455
Victoria Wilson455 :
Absolutely right
2026-02-16 04:24:39
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