@missfariesya: Still being kind, even when it hurts. Kadang kesian dekat diri sendiri, but I’m still me

adriana 𐙚 :

penat jadi people pleaser

️Hidayat :

no matter how many disrespect i received, i still choose to be kind because i can't let others feel the pain

xnispiah :

People pleaser always like that, forever and won't changed. Apapun still memberi yg sama pd semua org even prnh tersakiti in every situation. Jgn prnh berhenti menunjukkan kebaikan sbb kdg² kebaikan kita boleh menunjukkan yg masih ada org mcm ni dkt dunia ni. Self love is very important so nothing will hurt you 🥰

𝓪𝓳𝓲𝓴🏴 :

sebenarnya kita greenflag guys,org je tak hargai

Dania Ziqqra :

Sedih tapi I selalu mintak dkt Allah supaya jangan tarik nikmat berbuat baik dkt orang walaupun org tak hargai sbb I believe this world needs more kindness. Kdg2 rasa mcm eee tak adilnya tapi I would rather be kind than be cold hearted. I tanak stop buat baik just because people don’t appreciate it, tapi tak dinafikan kdg2 mmg sedih. Tapi takpe, Allah nampak dan Allah tahu, moga jadi asbab kita masuk syurga hehe sending hugs 🫂🫂🫂

_.flower10_ :

for me , pls stop being people pleaser ASAP, you will get drained & exhausted .. emotional burntout. pls priorities yourself first , have strong boundaries, but still being kind to people , but never trust anyone else 100% .. just 50% je .. all the best, may everything will be simplied for us !! amin

maidmumu :

Nope.Previously yes, but by time I realised, Allah grant me more rizq in different ways. And doing kind things make me happy and felt tenang tho people may not return the kindness. Its okay, Allah see what we did, insyaAllah banyak kebahagiaan menanti untuk orang2 baik 💕

Nana(⌐■-■) :

so don't ask me why I'm suddenly dry. because at that time , I'm truly tired of people

ny :

I feel this so much. I made them a priority in my life, while I was never even a choice for them. Being a people pleaser made me lose sight of my own worth ❤️‍🩹

♡ :

i believe in ganjaran from Allah, cuba je la jadi baik tapi sometimes2 terasa juga 🥺

01 :

Pernah tu tidak, tapi lebih kepada hari2 kesian Kat diri sendiri, sebab apa yg kita buat selalu dianggap remeh and tak di appreciate dengan org sekeliling, and bila kita dah betul dia org tak nmpk but bila salah sikit, bukan main hina rasa nya diri kita😂 tapi apa yg ambik saya dari situation tu that’s my “ujian” sebab kita tahu ujian yg dihadap tu mesti ade hikmah nya. People always come n go, so perkara positive nya just pikir maybe turn kita belum lagi kot, and cuba sentiasa “husnudzon”

zall :

pokhang :

Rasa kesian, but kesian lagi tengok orang lain. Gosh i think were so stubborn to be selfish. Maybe a gift i guess?

sky ♡ :

for me , kita layan lah and treat them nice ja. who knows if deeply they need it , untuk kita pula. Allah nampak hihi. i believe semua ada hikmah , inshallah one day kita dapat apa yg kita nak pula

🥀 :

everytime. everyday. kadang tu sampai fikir aku hidup untuk diri aku atau org sebenarnya...

aleeya :

"aku taknak care dah"- penipuan harian😌

gumball :

dalam hati je cakap idgaf tapi jumpa depan " tak sampai hati nak cut off tapi lepas pikir balik apa yang dia buat kat kita

yaOyaO :

pernah tak rasa macam, kita hargai orang macamana kita nak dihargai, tapi end up kita tak dapat pun benda yg sama, tapi tetap buat benda sama :)

imnurhidayah :

banggalah sebab you seorang yg suka berbuat baik dengan semua orang. bila kita layan orang denan ikhlas tanpa harapkan balasan yg sama..kita kn tenang

nyvalya._ :

Jadi people pleaser ni penat, dan yg lebih penat adalah mental kita, kadang kite tknak buat tpi rase bersalah tu lgi besar. Sometimes susah nk jelaskan mcm mane prasaan tu..

Puan Patengg :

Ingat lagi dkt tempat kerja lama, one day tu saya ajak kawan office keluar lunch. Kami berenam. Semua org kata tk kluar, dh bawak bekal, yada yada. So sy kluar sorg, tapi bila sy nk balik, rupanya diorg keluar lunch tnpa sy. So lepas tu, sy sedar diri. Smpai skrg sy masih terasa dgn kejadiaan tu.

Ham :

Penat dan kesian dekat diri sendiri. Trying to not give an F about people but i end up with “lahh takpela” “bole je no worries” “ok takpe takde hal la” they even took it for granted. Penat ye penat

✮..ꪀꪖꪑﺃ..ᯓ★ :

dulu pernah jadi people pleaser smpi sendiri penat, now i know my worth LANTAK lah orng nk kata even kadang terasa je.. cause MY MENTAL HEALTH MORE IMPORTANT 😚💕

dididanixl :

اكرام روسلان✨ :

saya selalu rasa kesian dkt org,sampai lupa nk kesian dkt diri sndiri