rich & rox • adhd love
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Friday 13 February 2026 19:17:54 GMT
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🌸✨DebbyDebster✨🌸 :
I feel this in my bones😅. What is RSD???
2026-02-13 20:06:03
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MarcyIsGreat :
"you cant be in trouble as a 40y/o woman" why did this never occur to me 😭😂
2026-02-13 21:02:04
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×Rainbow Mac N Cheese× :
what is RSD?
2026-02-13 19:47:18
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Wolfinn14 :
to be fair "we need to talk " is a terrible way to start a sentence lol
2026-02-13 21:34:28
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☆Miranda☆ :
even i felt that when he said: we need to talk. 😱😱😱
2026-02-13 19:21:19
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Chonky_Cookie :
my BF- "are you free for a call"? me-"you're gonna break up with me arnt you" 😭
2026-02-14 07:54:21
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Dee Sorgi :
"We need to talk" should be banned within any good relationship. Those are horribly triggering words and that's coming from someone that HATES hearing about "triggers".
2026-02-14 03:55:07
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cjwritestories :
Ugh everyone I know does this. “Hey let’s talk after work!” Or “I need to tell you something later” like no. No no no. You either tell me now or I’m going to start crying soon because clearly I messed everything up and you hate me and - ugh
2026-02-13 23:38:56
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Cosmic Sheep :
I find that instead of using "We need to talk" using other phrases like " I'd like to pick your brain on something" or " Hey let's figure out dinner plans/ budget etc" gives me waaaay less anxiety
2026-02-14 07:27:14
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Nova :
I think saying "let's talk about dinner" instead of just "we need to talk" is the key here.
2026-02-13 21:34:35
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Amber Chanez :
55! and I ALWAYS feel like I’m in trouble 😳😔💔
2026-02-13 19:48:15
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🎠 ꨄ 𝐌𝐔𝐌𝐌𝐀 𝐇𝐔𝐍𝐓 ꨄ 🎠 :
It’s because we’re used to bad news and being in trouble 🥺
2026-02-14 07:39:51
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col :
Or just turn the sentence around”Dinner plans: we need to talk about them.” It immediately frames the whole forthcoming conversation
2026-02-13 22:56:54
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Alanna Pierce🏳️⚧️🧡🤍🩷 :
Change the order of the initial sentence: “we need to talk about dinner“ can become “dinner plans, let’s talk.“ Knowing that the topic is safe beforehand lets me know that I can be safe during the whole thing. 🥰
2026-02-14 16:24:25
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𝒦𝓇𝒾𝓈𝓈𝓎 𝑀𝑜𝓇𝓇𝒾𝓈𝑜𝓃 :
I hate when people say we need to talk later.
2026-02-14 22:20:16
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we.are.all.rainbows :
You make me (a) feel so much less bad about myself, and (b) give me a small amount of of anxiety because I know I need to get diagnosed at the age of 63 but don’t know where to start lol
2026-02-13 20:52:59
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Zak Laughton :
Why would you acknowledge my existence unless it's to confirm the catastrophizing self-criticism that plays in my head 24/7? Just give me an agenda for every conversation 24 hours in advance please. Thanks!
2026-02-13 19:29:56
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ItCan’tRainAllTheTime! :
At work, I manage a few people with RSD. I time my messages to people to reduce worry (never send an invite I expectedly at the end of a work day) and I will always give context. Even if it is a difficult discussion I will give expectations (such as feedback received and opportunity identified). In cases of bad news I use very clear non emotive language.
2026-02-14 16:15:08
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Freyja :
these videos make me feel so seen and I cry every time that SOMEONE gets it
2026-02-13 19:54:07
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tmully8 :
When my boss says "can I see you in my office" 💯💯
2026-02-14 15:33:10
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fluffE :
just mention the topic direct and don't say we need to talk.
2026-04-07 11:53:50
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Phil :
Me at work. It confuses my managers.
2026-03-09 20:33:11
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JB in USA 🇬🇧 :
What did she do 6 years ago? 😅
2026-02-16 17:38:26
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KatieKateKathleenW :
"You must be anxious and on edge all of the time" Yes. Yes I am and I never said otherwise. 😳
2026-02-14 06:11:18
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𝕸𝖔𝖗𝖗𝖎𝖌𝖆𝖓 ⚔️ :
Casually giving tips that will help my marriage! Thank you! 🥰
2026-04-08 07:38:17
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