@keith.crossley1: Forgiving your partner after betrayal doesn’t mean the triggers disappear. It’s normal to feel vulnerable, even years later. But instead of pushing them away or revisiting the past, try leaning in. A trigger is often just a sign that you need reassurance, not a reason to reopen old wounds. Be direct—ask for what you need in the moment, like a hug or some comfort. Honor the relationship you’ve built, not the one you’ve already overcome. Comment the word “light” to get a free copy of my life-changing book: State Within Light #relationships #healing #forgiveness #emotionalgrowth

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hicksoutdoors
Hick’s Outdoors :
The way this just hit me I found out 2 days ago and we are choosing to fight for our marriage but man this hit hard
2026-02-24 18:49:19
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karen_.smith._
Nurse_karen. :
I’ve been through narcissistic abuse and infidelity myself, and I’d be more than happy to share my story and how I forgave my pathner ,overcome triggers ,my healing process and steps i took to trust again.
2026-03-24 01:54:18
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jessicajessicadiaz
Jessica :
Forgiving cheating is by far the hardest thing I’ve ever dealt with and I’m only 3 days in and I’m devastated
2026-06-02 02:25:41
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uservjddyobcf58590098
322626920 :
If I did that with my wife right now she would probably leave. I just try to hide the pain. It’s been 6 months since the last lie. I’m not a victim but man I’m hurt and tired.
2026-03-26 20:53:41
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carmenlz919
Carmen Lazar :
Or.. the simple, drama free solution is to just shut the door and leave the person who cheated behind the door… move on, life is complicated as it is .. no extra drama needed from a live of wondering and questions and what if..
2026-02-27 13:42:58
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tvsa7994
tvsa7994 :
yes, when the triggers happen is them leaning in. the partner should not get on the defence. maybe they should lean in and give the reassurance that is needed. this should happen until. if this is done by the cheater the triggers will stop.
2026-03-16 04:04:17
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yungyao1
Yungyao :
Dont put yourself thru that trauma, they didnt think about that while they were cheating, find yourself a loyal person that will always be loyal from the start
2026-03-23 01:37:29
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bunnylover1719
Nana ❤️ :
You pushed them away because you see they’re not putting in any kind of effort or changing or being transparent when they say the same things do the same actions as they were when they were cheating
2026-03-04 22:04:45
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jamiekuczmarski
Jamie Kuczmarski :
Hes not sorry and wont apologize so im done.
2026-04-12 13:50:15
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crazymom1996
GGirl38 :
What if that “hug” isn’t sincere?
2026-03-11 12:38:33
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karembo2012
Karembo2012 :
What I need now is to live very far away from him.
2026-04-14 01:33:26
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marybutler674
marybutler674 :
Great advice! They can’t read our mind, just say what you need.
2026-03-10 15:00:23
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magnaangelmon
Ominmon :
that is the correct way. but it didn't happen that way.
2026-03-07 14:44:04
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user2238636623867
user2238636623867 :
Nope! Can't do it unfortunately...has be ended
2026-02-26 18:15:28
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chelly0779
chelly0779 :
yeh and if u ask that from ur partner u get asked why r scared or vulnerable? So then u say and it still cause issues
2026-03-01 22:08:40
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eleonoraeduardovna310387
EleonoraEduardovna :
oh gosh, I can't love them again.
2026-02-26 17:44:45
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beanie.beanie83
BEANIE :
Light
2026-02-17 12:35:03
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ncnairobi1
NCNAIROBI :
Light
2026-03-11 08:32:03
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rexx124678
Rex 602 :
“Honor the relationship you’ve built not the one you’ve already overcome!” That’s a bar!
2026-03-24 23:30:15
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steven.a.mccommas
Steven A.Mccommas :
I love u and feed urself healing ..please
2026-06-02 00:29:51
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cynmagana30
MissCynthia :
Light
2026-03-27 14:03:39
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raketerangpinaykc
raketerangpinaykc :
He cheated 3 years ago and I forgave him however the infidelity gave me trauma
2026-04-18 15:11:23
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amandamegela
Amanda Megela :
Light
2026-04-19 01:06:28
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thatgsxrboi
. :
That is so much easier said than done
2026-04-05 19:27:37
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tvsa7994
tvsa7994 :
I
2026-03-16 04:07:21
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