@its_danielleryan: What’s your take? As a new mom, we hear about these situations happening all the time! #postpartum #postpartummom #parentingreality #momlife
For me it’s the opposite I could care less about the babies 😭 I love toddlers
2026-02-14 20:48:37
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MaddieT31 :
I feel so bad I havent been to see my bestie and her baby since the hospital. Having a germ full toddler and her a nicu baby doesnt mix 😭
2026-02-17 15:38:55
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Vixie💖 :
Opposite for me. Everyone was there for pregnancy wanted to be “auntie” but disappeared the second she was born.
2026-02-14 19:27:54
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kk :
I lost tons of friends at the stages of pregnancy, newborn AND TODDLER for these reasons
2026-02-14 18:32:29
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Grace :
I’m actually the opposite. I like spending time when they can talk back
2026-02-14 18:57:10
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Brittany :
No they come over for one photo…post it and never again.
2026-02-15 02:19:57
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Queen Ellearah :
Oh yeah everyone wanted to come see my son as a baby and now no one even hits us up. It’s why I haven’t even announced my second pregnancy on social media
2026-02-14 19:21:38
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Oppalevi :
My best friends literally ghosted me after I told them I was pregnant. Then months after my daughter was born I get the messages. I left every one of them on read
2026-02-16 21:31:10
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KatieGibson100 :
When my sister had her first child i was over everyday after school even when he got older i could teach him to do things for himself he was my bff
2026-02-17 22:05:16
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Plasticjoy :
It’s normal .
2026-02-14 18:55:20
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user6154794693809 :
What’s really sad is it probs affects other moms, especially single ones needing help :(
2026-02-14 17:50:44
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Scarlette | UGC :
Happens to all of us
2026-02-14 17:41:40
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abz mcgabz :
Mood
2026-02-14 18:25:31
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Taylor| SAHM :
mood everyone was so exited to meet my son when he was born now that he is a toddler everyone disappeared... same people found out im pregnant again and cant wait to meet this baby but it just makes me said for my toddler😭
2026-02-15 03:35:29
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eden😳 :
i love toddlers 😭 babies are cute but like they can’t really do anything ngl
2026-02-15 05:35:30
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becks427 :
This is my mother in law! Always making sure she is there for the baby stage. Once they can talk back she bounces.
2026-02-15 01:07:39
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Momma Jay ❤️ :
my favorite is the friend who showed up at the hospital and then hasn't been seen since..... or heard really, because I had a boy.
2026-02-15 14:36:42
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Kaylia Michelle :
I’ll never understand 😭
2026-02-15 06:12:03
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seeare :
It’s crazy how everyone is obsessed with the NB stage which is when I needed the most privacy and bonding time with my baby. Then once I’ve adjusted and I’m ready for visitors and no one even calls.
2026-02-14 18:12:20
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Vengeance 🖤⛓️ :
I had one girl who was there for me during my pregnancy and now while I'm post partum. but my daughter is only 2 weeks and everyone wants pics, even though they didn't check on me, the one girl who checked on me gets pics every day😂 she's my daughters auntie, just not by blood but by love🥰
2026-02-15 17:25:28
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AshleyIsTrying🙃 :
Thankful for the 3 people I have in my life who are always there for me and my kids
2026-03-28 21:03:09
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Boxwiz1 :
I feel so bad cause I don’t like being around babies (I get hella bad anxiety cause I don’t know how to properly care for them) but as soon as the can start walking, talking, etc then then I’m all for it cause they can tell me what they want or need or if something’s wrong. My friends tell me they like it that way but I still feel bad that I’m not as supportive and involved as I should be when they are tiny… I guess I’m at least filling the role when all the family bounces as soon as they are older but still.
2026-02-18 17:51:36
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the_s1ut_agenda :
For me I had a lot of people checking in on me while I was pregnant. People i barely talked to before wanted nothing to do with me until I announced my pregnancy, then congratulated me and tried planning to see her but I wasn’t having anything to do with it. But I agree! People are obsessed with the baby but once they get older these people disappear🤷🏻♀️It’s kinda weird behaviour tbh
2026-02-15 15:36:08
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Allie✨ :
This is how my mom is… I’ve seen her do this to so many people.
2026-02-28 21:55:09
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Ycey :
Most of my friends have never even met my eldest let alone my second. Some of them get a pass due to distance but others it was a real wake up call
2026-02-14 22:31:17
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