@the.cherished.woman: He must feel uncertainty from you. I don’t care what he’s saying to you or how much of a prince charming he is in the beginning, literally do not care. A high value woman is not giving a man certainty of her feelings for him until she sees consistent steady action progressing toward marriage (which he is leading) and initiating,,until that point he should not feel like he’s got you in the bag. And no this isn’t playing games this is what it means to actually value yourself and respect your time as a woman. Second emotion is scarcity. He has to feel like he can’t just have unlimited access to you and that he could literally lose you if he doesn’t bring his A game and best self. He should be losing sleep knowing at any moment you could get snatched up by a better man if he doesn’t step up. Men love the feeling of a woman being scarce and rare because it instantly makes him see her as more special & therefor boosts his confidence. The mistake is too many women are scared to be scarce like “what if he loses interest.” He can smell that on you and it’s a turn off. He wants a woman who is secure in herself and not afraid to lose him.

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Sunday 15 February 2026 03:05:53 GMT