If their behavior aligns with their communication it’s on us to regulate our nervous system. If their behavior does not align with what they’re saying, your nervous system is alerting you. It takes a lot of self regulation to know the difference.
2026-02-17 18:12:40
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Wolf Gang :
I understand but disagree. relationship are work. understanding each other. I dont like texting at work but I will reply when I can. because you should care how your partner feels.
2026-02-18 04:51:27
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𝓷𝓪𝓱𝓸𝓶𝓲. :
Some books motivate you. This one understands you. The Child I Never Got to Be by Dax Rowan felt like someone finally saw the kid I used to be.
2026-02-18 00:42:26
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Dabas Lily :
What if the person goes on two week vacation and just disappears, you see them updating stories and posting pictures, but they are not answering or texting you at all. 🤷🙂 I do think it says everything about their priorities.
2026-02-16 17:57:51
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user5515992001492 :
She’s honestly not wrong.
2026-02-15 17:51:44
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867530NINE 🇦🇺 :
It’s called anxious attachment.
2026-02-16 01:21:49
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Thick boi :
That’s called prioritization, and it absolutely has merit when you weight it against behaviors and habits. And should absolutely be used to Judge someone’s interest in you. But judging based on this alone isn’t enough to dismiss interest.
2026-02-16 22:41:24
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gggg :
I understand them being busy. Then they make a time to call you at the end of the day whether it’s 15 minutes 10 minutes or five minutes.
2026-02-23 02:05:14
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Andji :
It's all about consistency.
2026-02-17 21:34:16
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Scotty :
It does mean they aren’t interested in you lol. We are emotional creatures. Things we are interested in we naturally pursue. If you can go all day without talking to somebody you want, then youre not really interested lol
2026-03-09 09:21:20
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BadFranky :
Yea but it’s when they DONT tell you this before hand it leaves you over thinking. Saying you’re busy from the beginning is what needs to be communicated.
2026-02-22 01:12:37
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becomingmagnificent :
Texting anxiety in dating is often about uncertainty, not communication itself.
Clarity, pacing, and self-trust help regulate the nervous system so connection doesn’t become overanalysis.
2026-03-11 19:17:44
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NotNim :
I have a phone addiction - I literally lock my phone away for 8 hours a day in a physical lock box. I literally can’t check my phone so idk if they texted. It’s helped me so much with texting anxiety and regulating my nervous system
2026-02-27 13:17:53
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a.lavni ✨️ :
she's so right
2026-02-16 20:17:56
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Zesm :
Umm I don’t agree at all
2026-03-04 05:31:14
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Jen :
I don’t bother people when they’re at work, but if you say I’ll talk to you tonight and they don’t; to me that’s a problem.
2026-03-29 07:34:26
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iamYarmKela :
as long as he is not my man
2026-02-19 21:35:51
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Filipe🌞 :
If that comes with communication ok…. If not it’s just wrong
2026-02-20 09:28:47
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Kammy empress :
I don't fully agree because you'll see they updated status reshared their friends status which means he or she is available just not for you✌️
2026-02-19 18:46:04
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D.C. :
Sabrina says you are the problem for having anxiety…Sabrina, let me ask you what if they don’t show up even after they said they don’t have the bandwidth to deal with you at that time?? Am I still the problem?? 🤣
2026-02-18 07:42:23
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Robbie :
The bots in these comments all recommending the same book
2026-02-18 17:08:52
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Nicole Meiring 🇿🇦 :
so true, Ive learnt this lesson recently... it was me and I'm great now and much happier and secure
2026-02-15 18:55:34
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Rosie🌹 :
I needed to hear this today lol 😆
2026-03-04 18:21:40
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Meadow Jones :
I very much disagree with this because if I’m starting a new job and my coworker who is supposed to be training, me says they don’t have the bandwidth to help me. It’s not my job to regulate my nervous system. I think if you’ve been dating a while, that’s fine but when you’re just trying to get to know someone and they say this, they’re obviously not as excited as I am
2026-03-07 09:25:23
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SuperJay :
Ive been on both ends. Oh the person doesn’t like you lol.
2026-03-05 14:45:49
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