@daughters.healing: As a child, you had no choice but to put up with your control and manipulation. #narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissisticfamilysystem #narcissisticmother #borderlinemother
I’m 59 and still get punished by my mom when I tell the truth so I just keep quiet
2026-02-16 13:31:05
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logeybearandpercyboy :
Still treating me like a child and talking down to me in my 50’s 😒
2026-02-16 16:23:09
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Wolf :
Even as an adult, I could never stand up to my mom. Because I always thought everything was my fault. It want until after her death that I’m slowly realizing how she treated me. She has been dead for almost 11 years now, and I’m angry, I’m angry at her and angry at myself. I imagine conversations with her that I should have had, but will never get to have. I don’t know how to heal from this.
2026-02-22 02:27:08
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Jane :
One of my biggest regrets is being desperate for her love & attention all those years. As a 49 year old. I have no interest in her love & attention anymore. I see her once a year & ‘zone out’ mentality for the week I see her. I just wish I had zoned out years ago!!!!!!
2026-04-15 13:02:24
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Maddie Bullock :
She never raised me, but I've always given in and agreed because I'm terrified 😭 I'm 29. I know she loves me, but she doesn't approach things the way she should. I'm so tired of being scared.
2026-07-06 06:44:25
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Intentional :
Not speaking to her at all was the choice I made early on. It kept me safest to be hyper independent.
2026-04-04 11:27:43
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Anna :
She still does this and I’m an adult not living with her
2026-03-12 00:02:22
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BH :
Punishment was NOT good
2026-02-25 15:20:45
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susanbreithaupt :
Yet I loved so much. When she was wonderful she was WONDERFUL
2026-03-12 23:47:31
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dreamzz :
so true
2026-02-16 05:46:48
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burnerphone156 :
Son here. Still true.
2026-03-07 00:19:24
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Beyond No Contact :
Yes this type of behavior kept going for me for 52 years and then I met #relationaldeath and it was just over. I did. It survive either of my parents. It was never possible for them to change and so I had to stay in as it was or there was lots of trouble — and so eventually I just didn’t survive them💯💯💯💯
2026-02-18 14:40:25
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Kristy Ski :
It makes me so mad looking back because I have children of my own and could never imagine treating them the way my mother treated me.
2026-03-07 02:35:34
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Anna :
She still does this and I’m an adult not living with her
2026-03-12 00:01:30
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francie :
❤️❤️❤️❤️
2026-02-16 16:15:10
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CajunCafe :
Reacting to how I was treated (both as a kid & as an adult) was “talking back” and “rebelling” against my mom. So I became stoic. My mom said “she never had to worry about how she treated me” bc I “didn’t care.” When I went no-contact she told my dad “she don’t know what happened. (I) used to always talk to her.” So now she thinks my husband is controlling me bc she can’t imagine that I am an individual person.
2026-02-26 15:55:08
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hypergurli22 :
I had kids with a man like my mom…
2026-02-16 05:42:40
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