Mya🤍
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Monday 16 February 2026 14:59:26 GMT
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Ki. :
i don’t even like when toni fine do it. kindness is free
2026-02-17 21:00:42
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CherryPanda :
People that talk to me like Toni Fine get blocked
2026-02-18 01:54:17
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saiisanaii :
shame isn’t a good motivator
2026-02-18 20:03:13
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Loulou :
Getting your hair done is about pampering and care. Toni fine method works for what Toni fine does. 😌
2026-02-17 00:56:42
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celestiallystunning :
Ima say the quiet part loud. OUR ✋🏾 community has a bad habit of conflating harshness with emotional investment. We’re conditioned from childhood to think ppl who belittle us, curse us, and undermine our feelings do so “out of love” bc only someone who “loves” you would take the time to be “real”
2026-02-18 09:47:06
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prudencebackwood :
why would a hair stylist need to use tough love anyway? 😭 if a client doesn’t want to follow advice then oh well, it’s their problem at the end of the day.
2026-02-16 21:03:58
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🦄 :
I find it so strange that some people like being spoken to like garbage. Something ain’t right about that😭like ur not gonna talk to me like Joseline Hernandez just to sell a diet
2026-02-17 15:55:35
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autism assessor :
Thiiisss. Keep in mind bw already struggle with their relationship with their hair. Hair is like a super sensitive topic.
2026-02-16 15:16:22
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Beanca Rachelle :
My motto is: if your going to be a Toni fine hairstylist, expect me to be a Toni Fine client. Because I will let you know if your not doing it right
2026-02-18 08:36:49
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Geek In Heels💻👠 :
You’re exactly correct. Drill sergeant approach regarding working out. Sensitive and customer service when providing care services.
2026-02-17 13:23:58
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Maya :
I agree. I can appreciate a Toni Fine approach when I’m tryna get in shape. You’re not about to shame and bully me into getting a buzz cut tho.
2026-02-17 15:51:20
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Tc :
I have never left a salon not traumatized so the tony fine method is not for me. I need coddoling.
2026-02-16 15:27:44
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Kankaleen :
I think people who think that “tough love” (which it never is, it’s just abuse) or harsh talk is what they deserve to improve have bigger issues and I blame racism. It comes from the same place as beating as correction. Folks need to raise their self worth and want better.
2026-02-16 16:16:57
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🎀PinkChronicles🎀 :
same with makeup tips
2026-02-18 16:50:07
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Ife :
I agree. I’m very perceptive when it come to energy and I’m not gonna be disrespected in the name of “tough love”. It’s so important to create a safe space and be humble.
2026-02-16 23:04:01
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KIANITA :
hair hold memory and sometime that memory is trauma. you can’t bully someone into ANYTHING when it comes to their hair. signed a hairdresser and a black girl with hair trauma
2026-02-17 21:26:16
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Brittany Darby :
It especially doesn’t work out with someone who is actually touching your hair. That’s terrible energy to be in contact with.
2026-02-17 17:30:33
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ihasan292 :
Toni is also online you can skip her it’s not face to face interaction. Meeting someone face to face is different than how u approach someone online.
2026-02-18 22:36:51
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Corkandbeans :
I don’t even like that approach to fitness either lmao but I’m also a therapist so what do I know🤷🏾♀️
2026-02-18 01:44:57
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jaylatrenyce ♡ :
Agreed. Even more so considering the historical rhetoric on natural hair the word choice was egregious. Taking us 1000000 steps backwards!!
2026-02-17 21:27:03
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key 🔭 :
I am a bit more sensitive than most, but I can also tell a joke/direct communication from someone just being mean
2026-02-19 23:47:04
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ymsm :
I’m just a girl.. talk to me nice✨
2026-02-17 15:05:46
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Dunni :
My own mother doesn’t speak to me that way. You expect me to accept that from a stranger??
2026-02-19 02:17:35
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✨Alexis✨ :
Shaming is not kind. You can educate and be kind at the same time
2026-02-19 12:45:32
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Ms.teabody🐯🩷🖤 :
Tough love is for family and friends only, not your clients.
2026-02-18 16:25:20
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