@get.podgems: A divorce lawyer of 25 years says something shocking: the couples who sign prenups usually don’t get divorced. The real reason has nothing to do with money… 🎙 Source: @Christy W19 (chris williamson Podcast) 🎧 Guest: @James J. Sexton (James sexton) ✂️ Edited by (Pod gems💎) #PrenupTruth #MarriageDebate #RelationshipTalk #DivorceLawyer #ModernMarriage
Hear me out: prenup couples are clearly more communicative and open to talking about difficult things which is essential for marriage
2026-03-13 20:32:00
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Taylor :
People who are getting prenups/ cohabitation agreements are having the conversation about the hard topics and likely finding problems before walking down the aisle and then they either solve it or don’t get married that’s my theory
2026-02-17 02:48:46
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Oksana :
People treat prenups like bad luck, but it’s just clarity. Love is feelings, marriage is also a legal contract. You hope you’ll never use it, but if life happens, everyone already knows where they stand: my money is my money, and his money is our money, have it in writing.
2026-02-17 11:54:34
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beaeo67 :
If the couple have the maturity to do a prenup, they probably also already talk about important things before the marriage and will not go ahead with significant disagreement. And if something change they have the the maturity to talk it out
2026-02-17 08:51:06
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Poke.Wld :
I heard that prenups also protect your money and assets in the event of a lawsuit. Because it separates your belongings from your partner's.
Can anyone tell me if there's truth to this
2026-03-08 18:11:00
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M :
holla we want prenup!
2026-04-09 21:50:01
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Aidan :
I think 1) if you're responsible & mature enough to get a prenup you're gonna be better at handling the conflicts that will inevitably happen in any relationship and 2) if they do get divorced they might not need a lawyer, it might just be an amicable thing where they adhere to the prenup.
2026-03-11 20:51:07
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B Y G B :
I would also think people who get prenups would potentially not need a divorce lawyer. It all terms are sorted before separation couldn’t they avoid paying the divorce retainer fee and so themselves?
2026-03-13 00:29:54
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Mandy :
it makes sense to me that people who sat down and wrote the expectations of their marriage and potential divorce aren't using their prenups because they've had effective communication about what they expect out of their partner in their marriage and what the consequences will be if the relationship ends.
2026-04-06 15:44:13
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Zwiebelfisch :
100% of married people have a prenup. Either you write it or the state writes is for you.
2026-03-14 13:59:02
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starbuck09256 :
I think prenups should be mandatory for everyone.
2026-04-13 20:37:48
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Just Kim :
I have a prenup and been married almost 22 yrs.
2026-03-14 15:01:45
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Flixi-Flix :
My husband wanted to use the lawyer who wrote our prenup when we divorced. But since she wrote it for both of us, she was not allowed to represent just one party against the other.
2026-03-06 16:45:04
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pansregnig :
It’s no ones business
2026-04-10 22:41:18
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bdwm6000 :
I've never been married, but I would never get married without a prenup.
2026-02-19 20:15:39
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alishariel :
Everyone has a prenup. If you don’t make your own, it’s what ever your state law is. It’s best to make sure you like what it says
2026-04-11 18:06:24
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Tordenbolt :
I feel it's basically the test of marriage, if you can talk with the seriousness that a prenup is, and discuss about possible divorce, i think you have most of what you need for a long relationship which is communication
2026-03-20 11:50:43
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DELETE :
Its in my safe😂😂😂HAHAHHA
2026-03-12 01:14:36
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Iser89887773 :
Wrong, the constant is that people getting married and have enough money for a prenup, likely are better off financially which dramatically reduces the stress of a marriage leading to less divorce.
2026-03-23 02:31:14
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Doug DalPorto :
Depends on the state... divorce files are generally public in my state, I am a court clerk
2026-02-26 12:27:44
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lefty00003🍭🍭 :
People who say no to prenups don’t understand what a prenup actually is
2026-04-17 23:26:55
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mhennyman :
I remember the Golden girls episode with Stan. Scared me into never bringing one up. (I’m single lol)
2026-04-14 22:39:15
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Nancy Shimer :
obviously
2026-04-03 21:39:36
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fox :
why lie about getting a prenuptial agreement for??
2026-03-14 02:32:26
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Conner Crocker573 :
10k not expensive y’all im paying 400 for my devorce
2026-04-11 19:54:20
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