I don’t understand why they didn’t do a medicated cycle with check ins? They could absolutely do clomid or letrozole, bring you in for follicle checks and do a trigger shot if there’s nothing anatomically wrong with you and you have unexplained infertility. That would ensure you are ovulating, and give you a higher chance of conception than nothing at all without having to jump into next steps immediately.
2026-02-16 20:26:48
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TTC || ILM 💍 Bride :
GIRL! Ask your clinic about the Fertilo study! You can get IVF for free! I’m doing it now!
2026-02-17 01:14:37
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Nicole Waters :
Not selfish at all
2026-02-16 20:09:33
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Shaila Pawlik :
honestly im not sure the right way to say this but adoption is not just for when you cant have children of your own so you settle(that may not be the right word). Adoption and even fostering is a very delicate thing that can affect people you may never even get to meet. id encourage you to look into the stories of people who have been adopted to see what a healthy adoption can look like. I hope your family planning journey goes well❤️
2026-02-17 14:19:52
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Mackenzie :
Look for an OBGYN who uses Napro technology! Very high pregnancy success rates!
2026-02-16 20:07:31
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rhodytish :
As someone who’s done IUI and IVF… IVF caused me way more emotional damage.
2026-02-16 20:22:28
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breakfastsuckss :
A creator on this app got a job at Starbucks for the benefits of ivf!! And it worked for her.
2026-02-17 10:58:52
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Heather Anne :
IVF has way higher odds, and, in my experience, it’s the thing that will work, if anything will. I know, some people stop treatments and fall magically pregnant, but I’m talking generally…I did 6 rounds of IUI and then IVF. I wish I had those 6 months back.
2026-02-16 23:00:44
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Janae Lynn :
We did embryo adoption 🩷. I know it might not be for everyone, but we felt like it was the perfect choice for us because we wanted to adopt, but I also wanted to be pregnant. Praying that you will feel peace for whatever you choose next.
2026-02-16 20:59:31
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Just Jess :
Not selfish at all! I'd check out a functional medicine doctor and try to get an explanation for your "unexplained" infertility. Still can be expensive, but might be worth a shot.
2026-02-16 20:20:20
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Danielle Moore :
It’s not selfish. You have to do what you feel comfortable with. As an adoptee- hearing you say you are pro adoption, I’m so excited. But also, an an adoptee- I didn’t realize how amazing it was to have a child that looked like me.
2026-02-17 04:08:52
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kayridd :
I would jump to IVF over doing IUI.
2026-02-17 03:28:03
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Macey :
Sending so much love and support 🩷❤️
2026-02-16 20:21:48
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Jessyca :
Not selfish!
2026-02-16 20:32:51
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Rhi Sauerwine :
You guys should do what feels right for you. Nothing is selfish. Good luck
2026-02-16 21:05:08
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d :
i heard great things about ivf. i know everyone is different but its seems to work a lot better than iui from what ive heard
2026-02-16 20:11:02
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nat :
at this stage it's truly up to your heart's desire. you could further testing but it's tiring and expensive, IVF is invasive and taxing and adoption is truly 50 shades of vulnerable and truly trauma on all 3 sides. I hope you are able to feel at peace and choose wisely
2026-02-16 21:31:09
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Casi 📚✨ :
could you try a different fertility specialist to see if they have a different opinion of what could work? I have the same mind set with IVF so don't feel guilty!
2026-02-16 20:08:15
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zenashah4 :
sending lots of support. your videos are always interesting and topics many people go through
2026-02-17 03:57:02
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BanditKim :
I would agree - if medicated cycles aren’t an option then I’d go straight to IVF
2026-02-17 11:35:17
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Jaid ✨📚💕 :
Also adoption turned out to be even more expensive than IVF for us. So consider that.
2026-02-17 18:16:44
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katreeesha :
If you’ve been trying and really tracking ovulations and doing everything right, you pretty much have 1% to conceive naturally thus giving a lower success with Iui. I’m on the same boat. some my dr recommended straight to IVF
2026-02-16 23:22:36
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Misty ✨️ :
after seeing a few of your videos on having a hard time conceiving, I saw a TT of a couple who also couldnt and they did testing and found out theyre bodies were "allergic" to each other. Basically her immune system was to good and killed his swimmers. And they ended up having to take a medicine to calm her immune system down and to up his swimmers
2026-02-16 20:37:27
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user1256094993170 :
I’m rocking my double rainbow IUI baby right now. 🌈 🌈 We went through 5 years of infertility and two losses, and my 3rd IUI was successful. It was much more affordable and less daunting to me than IVF.
2026-02-16 20:48:00
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