@afterthepaperwork: Some thoughts on the Russian man who was recently arrested for violating the privacy rights of many women. The story is shocking but not surprising. Many women have had their life’s turned upside down due to the attention and scrutiny of being outed on social media. Their faces posted and reposted. Their names circulated and ridiculed in comments sections. #russianinghana #Yaytseslav #demographics

DapoDapsy :

being loose and invasion of privacy are mutually exclusive parts of the videos. I dont think there is any man who doesn't think it's an invasion of privacy. you won't choose how anyone reacts to your action.. "they won't give a black man same attention" you made points you are now cynical about. Just see the scenario below: a local asks them in such a way, they turned it down.. a white man comes in same way, they follow with an estimated 90% conversion rate to one single man... meanwhile if 50 local men did it with 50 of these same women, conversion rate could "perhaps be" 10%. What this points to is choice. How do you make a choice that is prejudicial towards a local and expect the local man to still be the one to stand for you... Choices have consequences. And as you said, "two consenting adults", hence the responsibility to be safe and maintain dignity is primarily the responsibility of the adults. I am not sure of the arrest story... but I can bet you won't see the same men you are crucifying advocating for his release... But let me remind you, you can not choose how and what they react to in a video. And "even if it did" means anyone is free to term it a "one night stand" and anyone, male or female is free to opine on it, if it makes it to public.. Going to an apartment of someone you know little about within the first few hours will rate as gullible and unsafe, even if the men are locals.. As grown up, you take responsibility for your actions or inaction DONT GASLIGHT THE LOCAL MEN