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4 years ago, I dated someone whose life status is higher than mine. whenever he took me to their house, his whole family wouldn't talk to me. one time, his mother messaged my mother, telling my mom to make me stay away from their son. I stayed, until one day I realized that whenever his Mom talks ill about me, he doesn't do anything to protect my name, and sometimes blame me about it, but whenever I tried to leave, he wouldn't let me. but I took courage and LEFT.
A year later, I met a Man, but before he asked me, he asked my parents for hand first, AT THE CHURCH. And I was surprised when he said, his family would usually tease him kesyo, "kuya, bagay kayo ni Cha". now I've spent 2 New Year's eve at their house. and I can tell that I could never find this kind of love ever again.
What I learned (in my case) was, sometimes when a door closes, another one opens. For you, kung mahal ka naman nya, and you can feel that he's standing up for you amidst his family's hate towards you, at the end of the day, if he truly loves you, he would take you somewhere far from that chaos. Otherwise, do that for yourself and find your own peace.
2026-02-23 05:02:37