@kjtrd30: Avoidant attachment😭💔 #fyp #fyppppppppppppppppppppppp #viral #xybca

bleuu :

I'm avoidant pero hindi ganto yung hino-hold kong principle

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leaving or walking away is a good example of how not to get hurt again.

Batkrisman :

In this generation the best choice you can do is to love yourself.

xyehv :

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I'm curious po sa mga avoidant... in friendship po do you notice when someone within your circle of friends gets hurt because of you? Do you notice when someone wants to stay but also gets hurt so they have to leave not because they don't love you but because they love you but it also hurts them so they need to leave? (I'm not trying to offend anyone but I just to learn understand more about avoidant... observation ko po kasi but I don't really know the side of avoidant... huhu)

janne :

im the kind of avoidant na once iyakan ko na yung isang tao or dumepende na ako sa presensya n'ya, nakakaapekto na s'ya sa akin—iniiwasan ko na s'ya. iiwanan ko na s'ya. kaya bihira akong magkaroon ng kaibigan, at walang wala pang nagiging bf.

balo :

i remember i had someone special back when i was in senior high school. after his birthday, i ghosted him with no explanation and goodbye. i was scared of getting too attached because he gave me so much love and attention, and he was very generous. it even reached the point where he would give me gifts, but i wouldn’t accept them. i was scared that he might leave me soon. i was scared to share my problems. i was scared that i would start depending on him. i was scared that if he left me, it would hurt too much, so i left first. it’s so sad to have an avoidant attachment style because you don’t know how to fix it. it suddenly takes over your feelings.😔

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I’m the kind of avoidant person who cries alone. I cried because of that girl, for sure. But when she gave me a second chance, I was still the one who wanted to leave, push her away, or build my own strong walls. Because for me, leaving or walking away feels like the best way not to get hurt again. But deep down, I know she wouldn’t do that to me.

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los.scottt :

an avoidant and loving person at the same time needs someone who understands then and loves them purely , i learned it by loving someone with an avoidant attachment u aways have to reassure her love her the best way you can prove her na hindi mo sya iiwan kahit anong mangyari, pwedeng mag fail but at least you proved her na not everyone leaves diba?

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ifscxleen :

I'm avoidant pero hindi pako nagkaron ng rs kasi hinihintay ko pa rin yung naging crush ko nung 7 years mag 8 years na hinihintay ko pa rin siya kasi siya lang naman yung naging mabuti sakin at di ako iniwan even in my worst day siya lang din yung nagmahal sakin pero as a friend lang I know naman na mag kaibigan lang kami pero the more na nagiging close kami before mas lumalalim yung pag ka gusto ko sakanya pero di ako umamin kasi natakot ako na baka someday masaktan ko siya and then lumipat sila ng bahay around 2020/2021 aamin na sana ako pero pag ka punta ko sa bahay nila wala na sila and then I started to lose my memories hindi ko na siya kilala yung mukha niya lang naalala ko di yung pangalan niya even I tried to remember it pero mas lalong di ko maalala pero mahal ko pa rin eh

Tani :

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🖇 :

ganto yung way of thinking ko, pero diko kaya mang iwan kaya ang nangyayari nag re-ready nalang ako sa pag alis nila, kahit kasama or nakakausap ko pa ni di-detach ko na sarili ko, iniisip ko agad na aalis na sila para kong umalis nga sila, okay ako.

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ᵖˡˢ Niki :

️rica :

parang ako lang ampotcha

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andromeda_galaxy2026 :

i just want to know why he really turn into like that , i will do everything to heal that past of him if he will let me 🥺 i want him to have the best happiest version of him without having to fear about love , without hesitation na lahat ng bagay inienjoy 🥺

🌙 𐙚⸆⸉ :

pinipili ko palagi na takasan ang lahat than facing my fears kahit alam kong nasasaktan ko na ang ibang tao at ang sarili ko dahil hindi ako marunong mag communicate

JuanEdúardo, RCrim :

Thankful ako sa avoidant ex-gf ko kasi dahil sa kanya Marami akong nututunan. Oo mahal na mahal ko yun. Pero mahal ko din ang sarili ko kaya nung hiniling nya na magpakalayo muna ibinigay ko sa kanya yung gusto niya. I have so much respect and love for her. Siya din yung isa sa mga main reason bakit nag-evolve ako from anxious to secure at isa din sya sa main reason bakit pursigido akong abutin yung mga pangarap ko sa buhay.

z :

gf ni louis (real) :

Having avoidant issue is no joke, wdym na ako laging bumibitaw kase ang iniisip ko, masasaktan rin ako sa huli.

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