@okstorytime: My friend refused to attend my wedding... because she thinks it's a scam! #reddit #redditstories #redditreadings #reddit_tiktok

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dsotr_bill
bill :
she's "getting even" for op missing her wedding, she's not going
2026-02-18 12:19:41
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lyssalaane
Lyssalaane :
Could be they’re having money issues
2026-02-17 19:58:05
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mounjarho
withaney :
At the rsvp deadline: “We haven’t received your reply yet, so we’re assuming that means you won’t be attending. We’ll miss you!”
2026-02-18 15:58:24
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wrenaissance_x
Wren :
yall saying destination wedding is a scam but this is supposed to be her best friend. the problem isn’t that she can’t go, it’s the fact that she’s not even telling OP she can’t go. she’s literally ignoring OP’s texts, and OP needs to get everything arranged for the people who will actually show up for her wedding. not responding to your best friend for MONTHS is insan
2026-02-18 18:43:28
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lio.que.lio
Lio :
Wedding culture in the US is insane, and the end result is not worth it.
2026-02-17 22:09:58
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phoebevine
Phoebe Vine :
I appreciate that the issue here is that she isn't replying and I agree that is rude. but on a separate note, unless you're filthy rich and can pay for everyone, a destination wedding is insane. you expect people to pay for a holiday but they don't get to decide where, when, what they do or what they wear (dress code). I'll happily attend a wedding that means I'll have to get a cheap room for 1 night but you can't expect more than that (flights, transfers etc). especially as it's customary to buy the couple a gift. destination weddings are meant to be very small. your destination wedding is not a holiday for your guests!
2026-04-08 17:35:23
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tracietracietraci
TracieTracieTracie :
Weddings are kinda a scam. I’ve been married 28 years very happily. There’s no reason anyone should have financial stress over anyone’s wedding
2026-02-17 20:51:28
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christinecraig23
Christine Craig897 :
That’s a lot of extra backstory.
2026-02-18 14:50:12
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cheksgal
cheksgal :
It's not even that much about the friend not wanting to go, the friend is also supposed to be the MAID OF HONOR. Stringing OP along about something like that is just careless, best friends or not.
2026-02-18 20:02:09
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branroth
Brandon R? 😆 :
It was out of your control but you missed her wedding. It’s that.
2026-02-19 04:48:53
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merriebaby
mer🪐 :
idk i kinda don’t blame the friend but she should be honest. i can’t imagine my best friend missing my wedding and then expecting me to be the maid of honor in hers without us having a discussion.
2026-02-19 11:41:17
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nyxhikergirl
NyxHiker Girl :
She never even said yes to being the MOH.
2026-02-18 14:06:56
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cazfoley
cazfoley :
jesus that took 3-5 business says. A lot or unnecessary waffle so make a short point. thank god for x2 speed.
2026-02-18 15:13:45
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ellar0r0n0a
Ella<3 :
She could've just said she can't make it due to financial concerns from the beginning
2026-02-19 15:31:52
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promethean20
StarTalk Daily :
she's "getting even" for op missing her wedding, she's not going
2026-02-19 00:57:55
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t23o
t23o :
That’s not your friend
2026-02-18 21:42:48
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mollypayne5085
mollypayne5085 :
So, just straight up ask her if she is coming or not and tell her you need an answer so you can finalize things. Let her know it is okay if she can’t make it, you will miss her but understand.
2026-02-25 19:47:52
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scarletangelcos
Angel :
She’s allowed to be upset that OP missed her wedding or to be having financial issues or whatever else. But that has to be communicated. Also like, it’s usually hard to afford traveling for a wedding while still in college. I don’t blame the friend if she can’t attend, traveling is expensive. But it’s time to talk cost estimates and then tell the bride honestly if you can’t do it.
2026-04-14 12:42:59
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heatherwelkermonr
HeatherAnn :
She just needs to give a definite answer
2026-02-17 21:29:18
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saint_noelle
Noelle :
ppl need to learn how to not share unnecessary details
2026-02-18 07:05:04
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kevynmorgan
🇬🇧 KEVYN MORGAN 👑 :
Just let it go
2026-02-17 20:25:40
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statuschaser
AMC Hammer ⚒️ :
What did the fancy house have to do with it? Not sure why you would mentioned it
2026-02-18 08:43:09
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kevswif
Throwback Blvd :
Is there a cliffs-notes version?
2026-02-17 19:21:41
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j832859
J8328 :
I agree with her destination weddings are total scams.
2026-02-18 18:23:56
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