Andddddd this is me 🤦🏻♀️how do I find someone secure 😫 even when I think I find a good one they’re fearful and we end up both push pulling 😐 I feel secure, then the second they’re insecure/clingy I’m avoidant, the second I end things and come back they’re avoidant and I’m anxious 😵💫😵💫😵💫
2026-02-18 01:54:09
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viridani :
why couldn't I have learnt this last year... it is crazy how subconsciously my anxious behaviours were. I literally couldn't do anything but follow what my body told me... well at least I know now
2026-03-01 00:04:24
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Andy :
But then talk to other people while you’re giving them space that they ask for.
2026-03-17 18:03:11
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$_$ :
She didn’t believe I had ptsd, anxiety from the military and told me to stop being a negative Macy because no one could be the at negative and you have to let go of the past
2026-02-26 13:15:42
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Devildogg111 :
The Fearful Avoidant will Still push Away a Securely Attached man Because of Fear of Intimacy and Push it away and Sabotage it
2026-03-04 03:55:50
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Raziak831 :
i allso find it to be desperate
2026-02-21 09:53:08
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Devildogg111 :
This is So Sad 🥲
2026-03-04 03:50:15
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Doobie :
everyone hates anxious men . Just more reason to work on moving to secure
2026-02-17 20:53:49
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