wrigleyster :
If you ask me to do something, and I say, I'll do it later, I probably will, but probably not before you realise that I haven't done it yet, causing you to remind me, which resets the timer for when later is. If you keep reminding me, I will actually forget, because clearly I don't need to remember, when you're doing such a fine job of remembering. Instead, ask me once, and make it obvious and visible that it needs doing. eg. leave the dishwasher open, if you want me to empty it. Leave the laundry basket out somewhere I'll see it when I finish what I'm doing, if you want me to hang/fold it, etc.
2026-02-18 00:51:55