@itsmarknichols: Seeing someone you care about be absent while you are present for others is a tough pill to swallow #friends #friendship #relationships #fyp

Proff :

People know exactly what they’re doing…

Mads :

seeing a friend never ever cheer me on even in instagram comments but do it for other friends very loudly was very very telling….

Bri✨️ :

it hurts so bad 💔

VON 🫧 :

I thought I was crazy for recognizing this 😭😭

miy :

cause apparently I’m a “low maintenance friend”

🫶🏾 :

i just demote everyone to acquaintance until they prove otherwise

yele_ye :

Meet people where they you at.

Em feat. Mister & Mimi (cats) :

Being an autistic I get this a lot.

Ash :

story of my life. can't wait to find my ppl

Chanel :

it got easier once I started meeting people exactly where they leave me at. I show up for whoever shows up for me. and if I feel like you on some weird stuff, I'm not reaching out first anymore. they can watch me on these apps like everybody else. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Toastymami :

This, but instead of showing up for other friends, showing up for men! That is a crazy realization!

olivemoonz :

Amanda💛 :

This is why I treat people how they treat me now

Derrian Jamecia ✨ :

Yes!! They can with every one else but can’t with you but will expect you to go above & beyond for them! My biggest pet peeve!

Robert Mandela :

do not exaggerate your presence in anyone's life.

originalshanny :

People love the thought of you not actually you.

Liv 🩺 :

Yep this is why I’ve started leaving ppl where they leave me at

medusa_D1 :

Yip and they actually want you to be grateful for the fact that they give you the least or nothing at all

Illest_Ken :

Nah some of yall used the word “we’re friends” too loosely. If yall don’t know each other in a deeper level then yall never actual friends.

andreacolinwrites :

But God forbid I start to prioritize other people, they notice that QUICK 😂

sayateee :

🎯!! started adjusting instead of throwing pity parties for myself

MrsMM Williams :

I ended a friendship for this exact reason…imbalance.

UltramarineBlue26 :

Especially if it's someone youve been there for everything for them. Everything. It's one HELL of a lesson

Jenniva :

Had a lot of old friends like this. Removed myself from them all. Once you know your place, you move accordingly and leave them right where they’re at.

zee :

it’s insane . it’s sad that it’ll start making you question yourself