@sahiti9: women are shamed for asking what men already get, this is how women unknowingly protect unfair standards. This is not even TOUCHING on the shortened life span + emotional deregulation that takes a toll on women physically due to decades of erasing themselves, serving themselves DISPROPORTIONATELY in ways that are overlooked & not viewed as “real labor”. There will never be a harder job in this world than bearing & raising children.. women are the fabric of society but treated like second class citizens #southasianwomen #patriachy #boymoms #internalizedmisogony #malecenteredwomen

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funnnesss
FunNess :
ooooo she was almost thereeeee. this one gave me hope 🤞🏼 keep going 👏🏼
2026-02-18 22:40:28
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missunderstood_dandelion
Robyn Dandelion :
She said "You need to stop" She doesn't wanna hear the truth 😭🤣
2026-02-19 11:01:09
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raquetterectangulaire_
Ranijalo :
may every Desi woman be freed from that mindset
2026-02-19 02:33:14
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rensizan
♡♥︎♡ :
I’ll kidnap Prahbas for you if you unbrainwash my mom for me
2026-02-18 23:58:42
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falconaway
Falconaway :
your mom reminds me of my mom saying "you need to be strong and independant" but also "your husband will lead you and you should defer to him always."
2026-02-23 07:23:05
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viannasausages11
viannasausages11 :
Woahhh, I haven’t seen your TikTok’s in a while but your mum seems way more open now!
2026-02-18 23:34:19
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rumaysa.am
rumaysa :
wait i wanna hear her response 😭😭 like wdym after you say all that she still wants to disagree idgi i wanna hear what her argument is at this point
2026-02-18 23:47:25
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mellisaseolal
Melo-Dramatic 🥀🇿🇦 :
I wish I was woke in my 20’s! May every young girl learn this! Only realized these things after being married & having children. Divorcing! 💯Correct!
2026-02-19 13:21:45
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dogmantras
dogmantras :
If it gives you any hope, I’m a 60-yr-old aunty who’s told her daughter the truth about marriage & kids. Her choice & I hope she chooses herself 🤞
2026-02-19 14:46:14
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nur_mellany
Nur Mellany 🤍 :
I think you're SO beautiful ♥️mashallah
2026-02-20 10:36:05
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oatmeal.cooki
It’s me bro :
Yes it is THAT DEEP!!
2026-02-20 18:39:21
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spawnyy.777
spawnyy.777 :
pleasee this is exactly how my conversation with mom goes 😭😭😭 before she shuns me saying im being hyper
2026-02-21 03:22:02
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milksleche
milksleche :
We’re expected to do charity and be grateful
2026-02-21 13:21:47
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wandervibesxo6
wandervibesxo6 :
That’s not right I agree with you
2026-02-18 23:39:01
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thelifestylecontent
The LifeStyle Content :
The worst part is they were brainwashed to, religion and society would shame them if they didn’t. Social media and watching them and wanting more has empowered us, we will not be going along with how they think.
2026-02-19 12:15:57
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pyarispna
pyarispna :
Thank you for sharing this !! I've learned just how important it is to have these conversations. 💗💗
2026-02-18 23:19:52
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isthatsubiyyy
Isthatsubiyyy :
PREACH SIS PREACH!
2026-02-19 00:27:24
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mounika.dadi25
mounika.dadi25 :
it’s so ingrained sometimes :(
2026-02-19 02:54:07
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precious_onyeukwu
Precious O. :
Are we talking about kids or romantic relationships? She’s so close tho
2026-02-19 02:28:06
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ootymenoo
oOTyOo :
I think that it's partially generational but also... I just went through menopause and I no longer prioritize anyone else but myself and my kids. With the extra testosterone I no longer feel the need to 'make the peace' for everyone around me especially men. I look back I understand why I did this for so many years but am also glad for the hormonal change that helps me balance my relationships in a better way.
2026-02-19 02:01:36
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user8173661728043
user8173661728043 :
Thank you for having these conversations and thank you for posting despite the hate you might get. I really believe it’s one little battle at a time and it’s encouraging to see others taking a stand!
2026-03-06 09:18:08
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christinarunway_
christinarunway_ :
My mom and I would have these conversation. Now she is finally divorcing my father. Internalized misogyny in a woman is a beast sometimes worse than patriarchy.
2026-02-22 19:03:25
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srichilimd
Sri :
Your mom is so sweet Khanna Thalli. I love these conversations so much. I do the same thing with my Amma and Pinni.
2026-02-20 02:25:17
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rajio
Rajio 🇨🇦 :
what do you mean men aren't expected to sacrifice? lol
2026-02-19 23:59:55
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jeremy.smith1522
Hellotoronto1123 :
Would u get mad if a man refused to have physcial intimacy and sets boundaries?
2026-02-19 02:54:01
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