@itskyajeub: The night we came home from the hospital with Charlotte I burst into tears because I felt so unorganized. The ‘before baby’ to do list didn’t get completed so when we got home and I was feeling sluggish and in pain postpartum, the reality of what didn’t get done hit. I think I sort of fell into the social media standard of baby prep. I was really trying to make everything look perfect and aesthetic, and in the process lost track of the stuff that really mattered. Now that I am almost 4 weeks postpartum, I do see that most of the tears were led by hormones and at the same time they made sense. I will say I do wish I had gotten my entire to-do list done before baby came (and maybe in the future, I will plan ahead better) I will also say that the world kept spinning and our joy and survival was not dependent on that to-do list😉 if you can relate, raise your hand🥲 #momlife #postpartum #relatable #mom #baby

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