abbyeckel
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Thursday 19 February 2026 01:29:00 GMT
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The Fourest Four 🏳️🌈💙 :
I’m a therapist and I’ve had women tell me “I just wish he’d hit or cheat on me so I’d feel justified in leaving him.”
2026-02-19 21:46:32
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MamaMewRebecca :
Tolerable level of unhappiness.
2026-02-19 02:02:06
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grumpyrxkat :
I called my divorce death by 1000 paper cuts. He’s a good guy. He’s a good dad, but he does not operate in life in the capacity that I can tolerate living with.
2026-02-19 13:56:17
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Winna 🦇 :
The bare minimum husband who only looks good bc so many husbands don’t even do the bare minimum.
2026-02-19 16:57:50
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✨️ April ✨️ :
I divorced this type of guy and everyone was confused when I told them I wanted out. Thank you for validating the choice to divorce a "good guy".
2026-02-19 18:15:20
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Wild Magnolias :
As a therapist I call this performative competency. They do just enough to tick a box but they never fully finish the job so you don’t ever get relief or feel safe, you are always on but also feel guilty asking them to do more. For example they will do the dishes but leave the sink full of food.
2026-02-20 14:07:25
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Cindy _Tron_Pop :
It's like being a C student. Not the worst but, striving towards mediocrity
2026-02-19 03:27:25
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🖤💚Karma💚🖤 :
“He wanted a mother I wanted a Husband” —thats the problem.
2026-02-19 12:10:57
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1seekingwisdom :
PRESENCE IS NOT PARTICIPATION
2026-02-19 18:37:11
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jordanthebabayaga :
It’s easy to appear to be the good guy when everything is done for you.
2026-02-19 02:48:09
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Maeghyn Ashleigh :
I heard someone say “ you’ve taken the mother role so when you want to leave you feel like you are neglecting your child”
2026-02-21 03:33:25
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Mysterious Leg Bruise :
Heavy on the “not prioritized unless you remind him”
2026-02-19 14:34:03
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car0 :
*can't remember important dates *no flowers *no dates unless I coordinate and plan *no vacation unless I do that too *no time to talk bc he has work buddies/boss calling for something works mon thru sometimes sundays, not that I'm complaining about that one but no time for us. after almost 9 years married nothing has changed. like I love him but tired
2026-04-13 23:29:45
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Carol Teodori :
It’s exhausting to feel like you’re the boss at home too…it’s like it’s second job
2026-02-20 14:08:42
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JC :
“Dying from a thousand paper cuts” THIS!!!
2026-02-19 17:21:34
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jtjnjyj :
Basically the husband from a sitcom
2026-02-20 11:48:06
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HamSandwich :
The bar is so low.
2026-02-19 16:58:21
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Jeeperscreepers797 :
Feel this in my soul. When I say I need help he says “just tell me what to do” and that’s the issue. I’m tired of managing everything
2026-04-16 22:06:08
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Lloydtoronto🇨🇦 :
Stay single kings
2026-02-20 18:00:48
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dxcdcfdtydrc :
“He does everything I ask of him but it’s not enough”
2026-02-21 02:05:45
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classyjax23 :
26 years and I feel like “is this all there is?”
2026-02-19 12:33:36
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Peace, Love, & Chocolate ✌️ :
this is my situation. been married 18 years and my husband is great at taking my directions. 😩 it is so exhausting to be the "leader" all the time.
2026-02-20 05:15:33
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Ana :
Married 12 years and I am the most depressed and lonely I’ve ever been.
2026-04-14 22:07:41
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Missy :
Neglect is abuse… again… neglect…. Is…. Abuse…
2026-02-20 02:47:44
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Nomad King :
anything but accountability 🙄
2026-02-21 04:30:08
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