xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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FruitFliesLikeAnAirplane :
after 9 months of being separated, I had the nicest conversation that I've ever had with my separated wife. We laughed and we joked and we heard each other. We usually keep the conversations less than 5 minutes but this one lasted for an hour and it felt so organic
2026-02-19 02:24:15
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VibingwBree | P1 💊 :
i want one for the partner that’s leaning away. what questions do we need to answer?
2026-02-20 03:28:17
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Anna Lemos :
it's hard when we separated cause he already was having an affair for 3 yrs.
2026-02-22 00:48:51
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leslienobles235 :
Currently separated living apart, I’m leaning in, we had six months apart but I really didn’t let go, this time I am willing to let go and it feels so freeing…for both of us
2026-02-19 23:32:46
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Frozen Fire :
What about someone that says they want to work it out but doesn’t do anything
2026-03-05 06:38:47
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ads0710 :
Do you have journal prompts if you are the one leaning out? Love all your videos! Very, very relatable for me during this very confusing season of my life. ❤️🩹
2026-02-20 00:20:31
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chipster83 :
Me and my wife are currently goin through this situation, she’s been ready to walk away for while, where’s I thought we were ok. I’ve left the family home but through some conversations and actions on my behalf, we’re gonna have some counselling sessions, we’ve had some great conversations since, I know what I need to do but it’s gonna be a long rd that I’m willing to put the effort into.
2026-04-04 05:53:34
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Amy-RC2022 :
As the one who has been “leaning in”, these 5 questions gave me so much clarity. Honestly I probably could have stopped at #1, but #5 was the nail in the coffin. Thank you for putting yourself out there in a way that is helping other people going through similar situations. I appreciate what you’re doing!
2026-02-19 09:10:43
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user441 :
I am separated now for only 3 weeks but I learned early on no contact absolutely no contact get in counseling and let yourself heal
2026-04-01 12:41:57
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Butt0ns_Books📚 :
I was so good with those questions. Until the last one. I’m the one leaning in. I also wouldn’t continue this marriage if nothing changed. Because I am the one who needed to change.. Because I am the one who changed that started the downward spiral of our marriage. He contributed to the downward spiral and has his own changes to make.. But I started it, and I did most of the hurt.
2026-03-08 04:02:28
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007 :
Just let Go…
2026-04-04 02:57:21
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Gee.wizz :
Do you have what this clarity means by our answers? Like how we answer determines something else?
2026-03-30 22:54:51
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Abraham :
We weren’t married and I never thought I would want to be, until her. This time apart combined with three months and change of sobriety have definitely changed me and given me clarity. I just want to see her one more time to let her know, everything we went through, was not for nothing. Will be writing these in my journal, thank you.
2026-02-20 03:29:15
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🕊-𝓜𝓲𝓪 𝓣𝓪𝔂𝓵𝓸𝓻-🕊 :
but what if he wants to move on eventually.
2026-04-03 15:01:42
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Tina :
He wants divorce doesn't want to work on it. we live together still, we overall got along great yes disconnect big time. but nothing we couldn't work on and fix. 😏
2026-02-19 17:31:17
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Carlos Velasquez :
what space looks like ?
2026-03-08 18:29:20
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cecilmartindale :
Nope 👎 dont want it anymore
2026-02-19 01:11:12
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Ho11y.wood :
Thank you
2026-02-19 16:14:50
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Gio :
You have opened my eyes to so many things
2026-03-12 13:10:28
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Brandi Sutherland :
Off topic I Love your hair
2026-03-11 13:57:40
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Azzurri :
I think this made a lot of sense...
2026-04-03 19:58:54
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flystraightjb :
me & my daughters mother have been split for near a year, we tried again recently in the sense there’s no labels but we will see it only lasted 3 weeks, she said to her friends she always knew she was going to marry me but the old patterns within myself that I thought I outgrew came to light and new patterns also showed that wasn’t healthy, I prayed for my family back all this time and was given an opportunity thinking I was ready this time & I clearly wasn’t, I was shown what I acc need to change in order to genuinely maintain a healthy relationship and family, we’ve gone out separate ways again and said we will give eachother 6months of genuine space. At the end of that there’s no guarantee we will be together but I have the opportunity to grow and learn from my mistakes, could God have given me a glimpse of the promise but we tried again in the wrong season and he had to show me where I also need to grow before the time is right, that’s what I feel in my heart but also maybe I just blew it
2026-03-20 16:14:53
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Love, Faye :
My husband is dismissive avoidant and anxious but we have different beliefs and cultures. Its a long story, he was amazing the first time i meet him and suddenly we always have a fight and worst part blaming and shouting all the time. Last year, i found out he fall inlove with someone and i didnt know where are already separated until last month i moved out in our house. I was trying to fix the marriage, but he decided already we are done and we never go back together, right now. I accepting everything that we never go back again because i dont want to suffer the same trauma again. I was trying to fix it, but now im tired and i need to find myself and peace. ✌🏻
2026-03-12 04:56:49
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Natalie :
im the burned out pursurer who wants to initiate the separation. is that what you mean by "the one who leans in"?
2026-03-30 17:17:58
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Lori Schneider421 :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-02-19 01:41:26
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