CHI._.mezie :
It’s not all black and white like you say. I’m sure that if he loves you, then he is truly sorry. But is he capable of being better? And if not, why? What traumas are holding him back from being there for the one he loves?
It was like this for me. Nowadays, no one really knows how to love properly, and that means generations pass by and we know a little less about love each time. I learned about love recently, after two years with the woman of my life. I lost her because of my mistakes — nothing like cheating, but small mistakes I couldn’t recognize until she was gone. And then, in the silence of her absence, I learned… because I truly love her.
She thinks I can’t change, and honestly, it’s not her fault if she believes that. But I did change. Is it too late now? Yeah, maybe. But I promised her I’ll wait. I’ll wait forever if that’s what it takes. And I’ll love her properly, even if she can’t see me.
All this to say: don’t give up on him. Try to listen and talk, but never spit venom at each other. Teach him how you like to be loved, and let him tell you how he likes it. Find common ground, and stand there together — with no doubts, knowing that both of you are choosing each other.
2026-03-02 16:28:26