@therapyjeff: 5 random red flags I personally scan for in new partner. #MentalHealth #therapy

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lauramarie1978
Laura Marie :
In my defense, I’m neurodivergent so it’s REALLY hard for me to pick a favorite of anything. It’s usually things I’m vibing with right now, or have a hyperfixation on.
2026-02-19 14:43:55
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annetik1
annetik1 :
Started backing into the shadows at #2 to think about things
2026-02-19 14:59:20
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lbrady152
lbrady152 :
The favorites one just triggered all the neurodivergent people (me) who can’t pick favorites (and takes everything literally) 🤣🤣🤣
2026-02-19 17:19:18
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user6787935788929
Sock Monkey Mom :
#6 they can’t stop talking about their ex
2026-02-19 15:26:35
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grievous_angel_1111
hi :
as a woman it is a red flag when men are too stuck on favorites. like, no I don’t want to hear your top 27 movies of all time. it often stands in for actual dialogue. do other women feel this way?
2026-02-19 19:52:17
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rawjaybee
RawJayBee :
I’ve had several therapists and they all agree I’m perfect 🙃🐝❤️
2026-02-19 14:31:37
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caveman_throws
caveman_throws :
I think the misunderstanding with some ppl in the comments is that not having a favorite anything is different than not being able to choose a favorite anything. I feel like the difference between “omg I can’t choose there’s so much stuff I like” and “I don’t have a favorite anything” with no other info is huge, but maybe that’s just me
2026-02-19 18:20:28
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edibleghosts
coffeeisasoup :
Oh god, making all the decisions in a couple is exhausting. I’m not a cruise director and i don’t wanna plan every meal and source of entertainment
2026-02-21 12:38:37
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9lives615
Christina | Animal Advocacy 🐾 :
“Control orientation looking for a target” is a powerful phrase!
2026-02-19 14:39:34
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zhii910
zhii910 :
I was expecting camping as one of the red flags 😂
2026-02-21 12:17:30
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danithepanda89
Danielle Cloud :
I feel like this entire comment section is now everyone panicking because none of us know any of our favorite anything 🤣
2026-02-20 02:37:26
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nix.nada
Nix.Nada :
Love the video Jeff but love that colour on your nails even more ❤️
2026-02-20 20:03:26
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.urrgghh
Urrgghh but call me Jim :
I’m still learning to fail, it’s a skill I wish someone had taught me long ago.
2026-02-19 16:21:27
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deeceeshizzle
D™️ 🍓🇨🇦 :
Me realizing my copy of Melon Collie and the Infinite Sadness double cassette I bought in middle school is now considered vintage
2026-02-19 18:49:17
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kathrdda
kathrdda :
Oops, I have every single one of these red flags. I guess that's why i'm single and in therapy 😌😌
2026-02-19 19:22:44
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jkennmafia
Jack | Music Takes :
That financial piece is alarmingly true, and that Smashing Pumpkins reference hit hard 😂
2026-02-19 15:26:12
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cassafrassidee
cassafrassidee :
What if what they're upset by is the extravagance of wealthy people showing off with impractical luxurious purchases that serve little to no purpose in the face of the extreme economic disparity between the poor and the ultra wealthy? Like rather than buying a practical car and doing something to make the world better with the extra 200k they could have not spent on a Lamborghini if they bought a Toyota instead?
2026-02-19 17:47:33
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inspired.wallflower
Kaelie 🍄🌻 :
Ouch the second one struck and now I have some work to do that I didn’t realize before 🫠😂
2026-02-21 01:58:39
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shoopsheepshoop
Cristinaaa :
I don't really have favorites so much as a top twenty, and the preference order tends to shuffle from time to time.
2026-02-19 15:31:35
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bevinsparty
Bevin 🎀✨ :
I quote my therapist all the time but he’s a wise dude!
2026-02-20 06:31:46
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zaunnika
Zaunnika :
Ugh. I have all of these, tho I can list my own red flags. I’m a work in progress.
2026-02-19 16:19:15
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austinantrican
austin :
if judging how other people spend their money is a red flag, judging how little other people tip service workers is a green flag
2026-02-19 21:45:54
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kayliemcclain
kayliemcclain :
The reason why I don’t pick favorites is because I know it’ll change😭 my favorite foods will never change though
2026-02-19 16:39:47
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argjirarex
Argjira :
A most excellent buy🥰🌝
2026-03-11 19:40:49
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