Alejandra Maria
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Thursday 19 February 2026 19:42:42 GMT
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Your guess :
The first time IS NEVER the 1st time.
2026-02-19 21:19:34
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Cecy Munster :
Trust a women thats 41 that should have left at 20….. it never stops and get worse but harder to leave.
2026-02-19 22:14:42
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JICE :
Trust me: they do not change
2026-02-20 05:14:01
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Luckymoon :
If you don’t trust your person to the point you have to go through their phone, or snoop, you need to leave. Bc it’s never going to work.
2026-02-20 09:42:57
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mina :
100% leave the first time. i wish i had. then 30 years have gone by.
2026-02-19 21:33:09
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🧿✨️♉️ :
You never regret leaving but you ALWAYS regret staying
2026-02-22 14:15:07
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Steph🇨🇦 :
I would add that you never get the trust back. You’ll always have doubts. When he gets a late night text, is running late, has a work trip, or anything else. You’ll always be on edge because you know you can’t trust him or how he truly feels about you.
2026-02-22 15:59:10
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Jamie Wilde :
YES. This advice could’ve saved me from a 12 year marriage.
2026-02-19 22:49:39
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Sarah :
When you finally catch them, they’ve been doing it so long they got sloppy and cocky.
2026-02-24 18:39:54
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Phumzile Msiza|HR Consultant :
yes. you must fail the first test. otherwise if you pass his first test, you will get exams, trials, research assessments, group research exercises... FAIL THE FIRST TEST THAT HE GIVES YOU.
2026-02-19 20:34:17
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dory :
I worked in male-dominated fields and they often ignored me and spoke freely in my presence cause I am not friends with my coworkers' spouses and even if I were they would not believe me. You do not know the extent to which men go to cover their lies, and they have each other back. Believe me, they are not sorry, just sorry of the consequences they face when caught.
2026-02-20 21:47:52
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Alisa :
It’s like taking the train in the wrong direction. You get out at the next stop. The longer you stay on that train, the longer it will take you to come back (to yourself)
2026-02-20 14:21:55
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chick :
Past behavior predicts future behavior❣️
2026-02-20 15:06:40
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Shantel Tatayana :
The long you stay the HARDER it is
2026-02-19 20:54:29
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Monica Morrill :
It’s always a coworker that he “hates”
2026-02-22 15:54:47
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megamillions530 :
I wish I would have left the first time
2026-02-20 13:54:55
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LeeLoo’s mom 🐾 :
NEVER EVER stay!!!! Period. Hard stop. I do not care what anyone says.
2026-02-20 14:09:58
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Ms.E :
Absolute TRUTH! NO SECOND CHANCE!
2026-02-19 20:51:46
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Finding me again :
Yes! Leave the first time. It WILL happen again...
2026-02-20 16:43:22
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facetiousfemme_57 :
You just wish you left sooner. If the thought is there, it's time to go. Whether it's cheating or any kind of abuse, you'll regret not leaving!!!
2026-02-19 22:28:06
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bluebird_of_fury :
Where was this pep talk for me 24 years ago? 😩 Trust me, ladies: I’m nearly 50 and this is absolutely accurate. 24 years of small betrayals discovered over the years, followed by finding out the major truth that he was still lying to me about huge betrayals all that time. Leave after the first discovery, before you’re tied down with kids and shared resources!
2026-02-20 14:45:32
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The Pragmatist 🇺🇸 :
“If I didn’t find out, he still wouldn’t have told me.” Exactly. That’s all you need to know.
2026-02-21 04:21:21
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MM :
I left the first time. with two small children. I never ever regretted that decision. it wasn't easy but I am entirely certain it was the right decision.
2026-02-20 04:08:25
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Bex :
i wonder if i should of left 19 years ago. he did it then. then did it again after all that time, but i wouldnt have my children so i cant regret the whole thing but i do regret not trusting my gut over and over again because now im doubting the whole 2 decades together wondering if he just never stopped.....
2026-02-24 21:54:36
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Ashley Will Travel :
leave the first time your intuition is telling you that you know better
2026-02-21 01:45:27
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