@daughters.healing: You might think your mom is narcissistic, but she could actually have borderline. #narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissisticfamilysystem #narcissisticmother #borderlinepersonalitydisorder #borderlinemother
is it bad that I don't care to differentiate? I don't deserve to be treated that way, no matter the reason /:
2026-02-22 04:00:43
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Apple User992347129 :
Doesn’t matter, the abuse is nearly identical to
2026-02-21 16:00:09
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J :
Theyre in the same cluster b category. Its also possible to have both
2026-02-20 02:37:37
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wicked.pixie :
I have high functioning bpd and my therapist told me from therapy sessions my mom has npd and I started questioning whether or not she might've had bpd as well , and the question that answered that was "when you're upset does she dismiss your feelings or make it about herself?" And she indeed made herself the victim and invalidated my feelings . Npd they will turn it around on you and they will either be victim or hero . Leaving you feeling worse about what they did
2026-03-06 04:02:43
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casey :
this explains why my mum was great with me as a child, but as soon as i started to become a teen the relationship shifted, and as an adult i had to cut contact because she had become so so mean and nasty that i don’t even recognise her anymore
2026-03-26 17:16:57
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mandashell :
I was diagnosed with BPD... my need for love is so strong... her need for attention and control is stronger
2026-03-08 19:45:58
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Colleen Murphy :
For me, no contact was the only answer regardless the condition. I took her abuse for 55 years - when she laid into my adult daughter for no reason - that’s it I’m done. BEST DECISION EVER
2026-02-23 16:58:36
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MEGAlowdon :
My mother told me I had BPD all throughout growing up… I’m starting to believe that wa projection.
2026-02-20 19:55:44
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brischl07 :
Pretty sure my mom has both.
2026-02-20 16:29:17
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blenderwithnolid :
BPD is so sad but the effects on the kid are the same unfortunately
2026-02-21 16:48:51
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Alex Peterson :
I think no contact is the solution to both. I on this spinning rock in space and being abused is not part of it.
2026-02-21 01:35:30
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Melissa :
Or… Both.
2026-03-26 10:07:11
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Brit :
I think my mom has both
2026-04-15 03:53:57
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Andrew Elotero Avalo :
Narcissist or bp ain’t the kids problem. It’s the parents for not seeking help and trying to be better. No contact left me at peace. Tried for 30 years.
2026-02-24 05:42:43
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JourneysofKim :
Many who are BPD have narcissistic traits. This doesn’t mean that someone who is BPD also is NPd. (While both often co-occur)
2026-03-08 19:10:46
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Kelsey 🌙 :
Can they have both? I feel like it’s both.
2026-02-23 04:51:33
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Frankie Brandi & Copper :
I don’t care. It’s still wrong.
2026-04-10 16:23:49
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Messymoe :
Lmaooooooooooo this is exactly what I’m dealing with. Those narcissistic parent videos are like 90% accurate a
2026-03-09 06:32:41
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ok :
I’m not hearing the difference
2026-02-22 18:04:41
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qtstanz :
My mom has both
2026-02-20 02:52:19
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Chrystynajoy :
Yes, Yes, Yes my mother is undiagnosed Borderline..
2026-02-23 04:06:46
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Nope :
Omg it does not even matter
2026-03-18 12:39:42
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4B_Bear :
Mine lost my love and she will never get it back
2026-02-21 10:52:36
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AddieKerm :
My mom tossed me out and I’m now enemy number 1. All due to the fact I would not go along with her reality which was not actual facts.
2026-03-03 04:06:30
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hammerkLincoln :
Is there a connection between cluster b disorders like bpd and Munchausen by proxy?
i see a lot of that in my birthgiver. she was obsessed with medical dramas and finding problems that didn't exist
2026-02-22 08:05:22
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