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denisse ﾒ𝟶 :
Hi queen, I’m in a super similar boat..I don’t have a car either, student loans emails coming in, not eating the best because i cant cook well, feeling stuck… But you WILL be successful! When I get stuck in a bad place, I always remember that it will be temporary. I also think to myself “hey I can’t compare myself to others because we have different stating points” I know it super hard because this perception of time and feeling like your running out of it is super ingrained, especially if the stress is coming from parents. But DO NOT feel bad, your timeline is right!! I know your parents want what is best for you, but sometimes I feel like they can get too involved. But you yourself know what’s right for you and only you can know that. I say from experience because I also feel like sometimes I feel like no matter what I do, I cant please my parents ever… So because of that I recently just kinda started living a little more with them in the background of my head. I always used to think, omg what are they going to say, things like that, but then I realized that even though I’m living with them, I shouldn’t always feel the need to please them. And don’t get me wrong, I’m the eldest and always feel the need to include them and my family in every decision, but that’s just making me feel kinda suffocated. And I don’t want to feel like that towards them yk, it’s hard, but I’m still learning as I go. I feel like I can’t explain myself too well through a comment, but I hear you, I see you, and I understand. You will get where you want to be queen, you are literally super cool and kind, I’m always rooting for you 🫶
2026-02-19 23:17:56
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makayla butler :
Girl I literally cried the day before, day of, and now today the day after my birthday like I really understand bc life is just beating me down so bad
2026-02-21 03:00:31
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j :
🌺 post grad is so rough🥲🥲 i love listening to ur videos and am rooting for u <333
2026-02-20 01:46:53
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Maria :
The corporate job market sucks and it seems like moving out and having your own space would do wonders for your mental health. If the operations manager job is in the morning, can you look into kids after school programs or other part time gigs in the evenings? The more gigs you have going on the more you can save. A car is definitely an expense but don’t get a new car. Focus on saving $ for a reliable used car (think Honda civic or Toyota Corolla) — around 5k that will get you from point A to B
2026-02-20 12:16:55
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Maria’s Life🎀✨ :
I literally broke dwn to mom & told her that i feel like im failing her at life because i am not where i want to be in life & i seen myself with my dream job/house/graduating etc. at MY AGE… you are not alone & im sorry your feeling like this🤍
2026-02-22 07:13:59
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Jesitt Michelle :
as someone who has been in your shoes, it takes time. Modify your resume as best as you can and shoot that thing everywhere, but also if there is a college or university nearby - those have plenty of good stable jobs. If you ever want to chat about this, I’d be more than happy to talk!
2026-02-20 19:06:14
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Maria Ortega 🇲🇽🫶 :
I resonate with this so much I use to live on my own & I had to move back I felt like a failure for them & myself BUT, you have to give yourself grace ❤️it’s okay for you to stand up for yourself & tell your parents that you love them & that you’re doing all you can right now & that you appreciate & love them & what you need from them is understanding & patience but I’m so sorry it’s hard when you’re in this hole 🕳️to remember to do self care 🧖♀️do the things you love, be around the people you know will support, listen & understand you, eat what makes you feel good, & go outside to get grounded again for me that’s running or the gym very therapeutic but I hope you feel better & just know you’re not the only adult that is strugglinggggg & living with their parents ❤️
2026-02-23 03:28:10
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foreignerforever1 :
This too shall pass! Keep your head up 🙏🏻
2026-02-19 23:19:22
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Maira :
Girl meee I’ve been sooo depressed !!!!!!!! 😭 we got this 🫶🏼😭
2026-02-20 16:09:05
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cloudberryid :
This is all so so valid. I came back home after college too and it was ROUGH living with my parents after. It will get better. All things in time. FYI I love ur vids and rants 🌸🌸
2026-02-20 07:05:43
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naturelover/traveler/🌱🏖🍁❄️ :
have you sat down with your parents and tell them how you feel. :) and I totally been in your shoes. you will find a way. there's is a light in the tunnel. you hit this girl.
2026-02-20 03:27:35
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Alejandra A :
I get you 1000%. Just keep pushing through and what’s best for you will come. The way that I continue to be optimistic about life is that I’m going through these things so my kids won’t
2026-02-20 06:17:28
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𝓈𝓀𝓎 :
I feel this, this week has been ugh
2026-02-20 01:12:33
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Gina Camacho :
Yes. But I know deep inside everything is going to get better.
2026-02-20 06:49:06
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joe cool :
Girl I’m a real person and I’m listening! I started following you a while back and I 100% relate to the entire postgrad situation and feeling SO behind. This feels like a support group ❤️
2026-02-20 00:25:38
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jhanelleee_cc :
i’m rootin for u girl!! keep pushin, you got this. def so relatable, you are not alone. also you’re so pretty and not fat lol 💕💓💗
2026-02-20 06:27:26
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Andrew041 :
It’ll Get Better Sweetie
2026-02-20 05:02:56
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naturelover/traveler/🌱🏖🍁❄️ :
I also enjoy watching your videos
2026-02-20 03:27:58
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Michelle :
Stay strong girl! It will get better ❤️🩹 I promise.
2026-02-20 00:44:18
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Gege :
I relate
2026-02-20 00:06:04
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Missy :
🌺🌺 I totally felt how you feel rn after I graduated.
2026-02-20 01:07:04
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Inchanelshetrusts :
So relatable
2026-04-16 23:12:38
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Giselle Macias :
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2026-02-20 06:59:48
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Maira :
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2026-02-20 16:17:06
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