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Viaerie :

avoidant daw pero nihindi ma-avoid pinagseselosan ko??

WEYVEN :

Too risky to share

User :

YEARNER. :

ako na mag REREPOST GUYS gotcha

zeikiela :

bro not all avoidant people are like that. tskk

Ken :

Too risky to repost coz its 100% relate

Haiden. :

Hindi madali ang maging avoidant. This personality was shaped by experiences—by pain, by fear, by things we had to endure long before you came into our lives. When you tell us we don’t deserve love, it feels like you’re erasing everything we’ve been through. Hindi niyo nakikita kung gaano kahirap para sa sakanila na magtiwala ulit, na magbukas ulit, na sumugal ulit. Alam kong marami ang magagalit at magdi-disagree sa sasabihin ko. But the truth is, hindi naman sila basta nagiging avoidant towards someone nang walang dahilan. There are triggers. There are moments, actions, or even subtle changes that remind us of past pain. At para sa inyo maliit lang ‘yon—but for us, it’s overwhelming. The pain is too much for us to handle. Kaya kahit kaunting possibility lang na masaktan ulit, we instinctively choose to step back. Hindi niyo nakikita kung gaano sila nakikipaglaban sa sarili nila. Yung gustong lumapit pero natatakot. Yung gustong mag-stay pero hindi alam kung paano. Yung gustong magmahal pero hindi sigurado kung kaya pa ulit. It’s a constant battle between wanting connection and protecting ourselves from getting hurt again. We don’t need judgment. We don’t need to be labeled as toxic, cold, or unworthy. What we need is understanding or at the very least, respect. Kasi kung hindi niyo sila kayang intindihin, sana huwag niyo na lang silang husgahan. At higit sa lahat, huwag niyong iparamdam na hindi sila deserving ng love. Kasi kahit ganoon sila, kahit may walls walls, kahit nahihirapan Silang mag-open up tao pa rin sila. Nasasaktan at natatakot din. And lastly, nagmamahal as well—sa paraang kaya nila. At isa pa, kung may isang bagay na kayang tumapat sa isang avoidant na tao, that is someone who is brave enough to stay, consistent enough to prove that they won’t leave, and patient enough to understand us without forcing us to change overnight. Someone who doesn’t take our distance personally, but instead sees it as something we’re still learning to overcome. Yung taong hindi susuko sa unang paglayo ng bawat isa. Sometimes, we tend to push people away because we want them to pull us closer. base sa pinag daanan ko sa avoidant girl ko mahal koyon sobra

gyro :

risky to repost...

kyosue :

know the real game of gamers

nash :

saktong sakto ah

Selene 🌕 :

hindi lahat ganiyan. pls lang, baka mag overthink yung bebe ko 😢

Geo :

Yun lng

Jonathan_Yadan :

tapos sila pa broken sa mga kwento nila pero malalaman mo nalang na may nakakausap na yan 1 day after

akobudoyyy :

nice g alam na alam mo kwento ko a

乙4N3 :

madami pala nakaranas kalako ako lang 🤣

wamport :

tandaan walang avoidant issue pag gusto ka talaga ng eacakes

Andrei :

totoo , kala ko sakin lng nangyare to , pero bff ko pa din nmn sya HAHAHA

Red :

7 years pinag palit lang sa katrabaho

I_am_Ador :

Kaya napagod, Kaya na pressure sa presence mo kasi may kinakausap at ini-entertain na bago.

trix_cae :

bat ansakit☹️

Jy :

Araymo

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Aray mo ayaw na ayusin may kapalit na pala

nyla :

TRUE THE FIRE 😞😞

marki :

kuha mo hahahahaha

zle🧚🏻‍♀️ :

Why SOME people think like this hm? hindi porket naging avoidant eh may iba agad?