@wemiopakunle: Every time someone succeeds, people rush to explain why it doesn’t count. Maybe you’ve done it or maybe it’s been done to you. I’ve found that for most of the people hating or criticizing, discrediting someone else’s success feels safer than confronting the parts of their life they haven’t acted on yet. So to that, I say stop hating, stop comparing and start using what you have. There are things we cannot control in this journey which is why it’s important to focus on the things we can control. Ultimately it’s not about what you have, it’s about what you do with what you have. #success #oliviadean #beyonce #lifemotivation #successmotivation

Patricia Lee231 :

This was excellent! It needs to be shared a million times!!!

Rosie :

Love this! It really hits home with one of my daughter’s who at 27 has become a successful content creator. When she started she received a lot of hate comments from frienemies. Girls in high school who were mean girls. FForward she’s built a beautiful home with her husband, her daughter and living her dream life. I’m so glad that she had support from the people she loves family, friends and the church that helped her get through tough times.

Incandescent Joy :

I love your content. I realize a lot of people find it easier to point out someone else advantages to use as an excuse as to why they themselves cannot have the same achievements. The problem with that mindset is causes you to turn a blind eye to any advantages that you may have already or that may eventually present themselves. It becomes a sad, sick cycle of bitterness and regret.

chiikawaii :

Omg the mere fact that you showed up on my feed again, means I have to lock in again.

delores782 :

Jealous is a sickness and a lot of people suffer from it. Just a human here and sometimes it happens to me but I try hard to change it to praise for that person. Does make me feel better 💖💖💖

PoshZambian|MultiNiche creator :

I always love your videos . I find it so strange that other people would be threatened to upset by other people simply because the path in which they reach success is not what they like. Sometimes people can be weird and it’s quite disappointing, but it’s good to know that there are people out there who genuinely cheer others who succeed

Carly 🦋 :

I have a colleague who hates me because of this. I went to good schools early on and now she thinks all my opportunities came easy after that.

BHYBE. :

Mahn people are always going to hate.Its up to us to let it affect us or not.Peoples’ insecurities always trigger

Mademoiselle Janet :

Ooooh Girl!💞💞💞You look fabulous….your hair is hairing!!!!🔥🔥🔥

perpetualchalwe :

Honestly you are such a blessing Wemi(Feels wrong to address you in first name basis). So well articulated 🙌🏾🙌🏾

Bonnie Bold :

So true we’re given what we can carry

Korkor Nortey :

You are speaking volumes girl

Empra salon UG :

I'm always curious, excited even to learn or just understand how they made it... See what I can pick up even if it's only awareness

Lori2x :

Your perspective always opens my eyes.

Chinwe🌸🩵/type4chair content :

Omg this hair looks so good on you😍

2Real4u2see :

Fa Diallo, MSN, PMHNP-BC :

1000% facts.

Lynette Alexander :

AMEN❤️❤️❤️

lisabrown1993 :

I am proud of my fellow humans for overcoming struggles!

Carla Wilson :

You are right on so many levels

waj@y :

ozone layer wisdom 👌 ❤️📌

mokgauza :

amen amen amen amen amen 🥰

Renee Duhaney-Oliver :

Love 💗 your videos !! You’re so talented and absolutely beautiful

Rosy :

I have not seen you in a while. I have to search most times. There's nothing we do that people won't talk about.

Pleasant Inspired Apparel :

So true and you can’t worry about people