@the_eternal_tarot: You’re single because you’re afraid of being alone. And that fear is choosing for you. When you date from “I can’t lose this,” you tolerate inconsistency. You overgive. You attach too quickly. That energy is felt. You don’t attract what you say you want. You attract what you are. If you feel incomplete alone, you’ll keep meeting people who mirror that gap. If you fear abandonment, you’ll keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners. Love meets you at your level of self security, not your level of desire. The shift is simple, but not easy: Become unavailable for anyone who is not aligned. Get comfortable in your own company. Choose from wholeness, not urgency.