@maisonrickie: Today, we go into how effortlessness factors into privilege. This is a conversation around how trying or being perceived as trying is a losing move. And I’ve seen this personally. No one wants to be seen as trying because the truth of the matter is that “becoming” will always be outranked “being” in this society. Heading back to NYC this afternoon so I may be late on my replies but be sure to let me know what you think in the comments 🙏 So many more videos to touch on as it pertains to this topic! Enjoy your weekend ❤️

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d1v1ne.br3
♡⃛₊⁺˖𐦍˖⁺₊♡⃛ :
We need to stop referring to them as the elite.
2026-02-20 20:26:50
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warm_feel
🚬 for 🍉 :
so that’s why it feels so embarressing to try
2026-02-20 17:34:07
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luckymonitor
Luckymonitor :
so being nonchalant is the meta?
2026-02-20 19:53:30
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songo2585
songo25 :
This does not apply to all cultures. In Poland and other Slavic countries, there is a social class called the "intelligentsia". This is the term used to describe the intellectual elite, which has just sacrificed a lot for education and gaining cultural capital. This class has symbolic supremacy and the highest recognition in society, although members of the intelligentsia do not have to be wealthy. A professor who earns as much as a skilled worker has a higher social status than a millionaire. That is why in Slavic countries, rich people often buy diplomas from random universities, just to be able to boast of a master's or doctoral degree.
2026-02-21 18:28:36
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mayhem1ly
Emilia :
This is also interestingly different between countries, I thought I grew up fairly working class in Finland with a hairdresser mum and a factory worker dad but because quite a lot of people in Finland own land and summer houses and lakes now since I’ve moved to the UK I accidentally keep referring to things like “our summer house” or “our lake at our summer house” and people instantly treat me differently in the UK.
2026-02-20 17:23:20
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breci3
Breci :
That’s also why it takes 2 or 3 generations to fit in, the firsts are learning the codes and building the network and maintaining the wealth while the 3rd or 4th is born with it
2026-02-20 18:09:35
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burner.account.67
Duncan :
A system designed by the privileged, for the privileged.
2026-02-20 18:01:55
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kat_official_sa
kat :
I was talking about this with my friend, we came to a conclusion that effortless cultural capital would only be effective on our kids, who were “born” into elite status. We learnt it, it takes/took effort
2026-02-20 19:22:28
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tiktokusernotfound13
user not found 13 :
we need to stop caring abt the "elite"
2026-02-22 05:41:13
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k.odja
KODJA :
Watching from Monte Carlo
2026-02-20 17:01:40
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k747127
K :
Watching this from my villa... in the sims game
2026-02-20 17:08:45
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gessicasant_ana
Géssica Sant'Ana :
One thing I learned is to not say things I was not asked to. When someone compliments my clothes, my English or my Italian, I just say "thank you" . I never say how much things cost or how I learned other languages. Just take the compliment, no explanations
2026-02-22 14:55:09
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l258194
L :
interesting that you chose a shot of Succession, where inherited privilege grants access and status (the kids) but it’s Tom who wins in the end through striving and aspiration, revealing both the advantages / disadvantages of both position
2026-04-12 16:23:00
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latteroch07
🌈 Charlie ⭐️ :
This reminded me of figure skating. The way the best skaters started so early that they don’t even remember and it’s just natural to them, while if you start later it’s «embarrassing». And you’ll never be like the elite. Because you need to be born into it basically
2026-02-20 21:11:15
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whitebeacon0
White Beacon :
the cheat code is to not take it seriously, dismiss its superiority and ironically play with it
2026-04-14 03:08:51
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aelofre
tau42 :
and I'm trilungual because I'm poor and an immigrant 😌
2026-02-20 19:27:03
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elaineinphilly
Elaine | That's Life :
so basically the rage society has started feeling toward nepo babies is because the harder people try to better themselves to gain ground on the next class, by design the further away they become from that class even if they get it right
2026-02-20 19:08:46
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msdeonnasmith
Deonna Smith :
I wish there was a racial analysis of your work on social capital because it’s certainly a factor
2026-02-21 07:02:12
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werollon
Roll On :
This is also something that comes up in the "new money vs. old money" discussions
2026-02-20 17:42:02
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rye.chu4
Rye Chu :
it's curious to think that being is better than becoming. if somebody whose first language isn't English spoke just as or better than a native, that's more impressive. how can it not? well because if you paid attention to all of these videos, the other class determined it so. English is a great example because no matter how you try to justify "oh my parents were white Americans" it will never elevate the status. so not only is being important but you have to be the right country from the start. French is bougie. Spanish is not, if it is Mexican or s. American. but Spain Spanish? that's suddenly bougie. no rhyme and reason if you were nihilistic, but completely sensible if you bought into the fiction
2026-02-20 18:59:35
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tinytimmy3333
Timmy33 :
Stared so young, that you didn’t have a choice… it just is/was
2026-02-20 18:39:18
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pierre12722
pierre12722 :
I like your content very much. Today, on the day of Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor’s disgraceful arrest, we should remind ourselves where status and privilege can lead people who were given everything “on a silver plate” and never had to make any effort in their lives because everything was provided to them from the very beginning. We should not feel inferior simply because we strive to learn, improve ourselves, and rise above the circumstances we were born into. Rather, we should be proud of ourselves. I believe this is the life story of many people around the world. Why do we always feel the need to revere the elites? Maybe it’s time to hold them accountable and expect more from them than contempt for the masses?
2026-02-20 18:09:53
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leonarbrodicaprio
Leonardo :
And the interesting addition to this is, entitlement actually works, because people scan for it when looking to see if your worthy.
2026-02-21 05:59:14
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chefbibby
ℂ𝕙𝕖𝕗𝕓𝕚𝕓𝕓𝕪 :
I speak perfect Shona I can code switch effortless too
2026-02-20 17:59:26
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user35129586514016
user35129586514016 :
Great series of videos you’ve done. Lifting the veil of the BS of these types of circles is important so that everyone can get back to the business of living and enjoying their lives without aspiring to be in these crowds or trying to spend their lives chasing these things to no avail. I’ve spent time around some “billionaires” and there’s nothing mystical there. Yes, they may have a lot of access but generally speaking, they are fairly amoral, and often unattractive both inside and out. Old money friends with their families’ last names on buildings at universities often make fun of how insane old family members were and behaved. Being confident in yourself, having self respect, and being a good human to others is way classier than any home, yacht, or car you could obtain. Don’t waste your energy. Do what you like because you actually like it and not because it might get you somewhere.
2026-02-20 20:07:28
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