@scott.austin.martin: SAFE was written to define the minimum standard for emotional safety. Clearly, not to shame men or teach you to argue better, but to make the structure of safety visible. Because most men were never taught this. And once you can see it, you can build it. Link to book or ebook in bio. #nervoussystem #relationships #relationshiptips

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motivatingminds11
Candice Mitchell :
I tell my guy, “you’re not hearing me based on your response to what I said.”
2026-02-20 20:56:38
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jerkymash
Mash :
I’m a woman and my man says that I don’t listen to him while everything in me and around says I am and I try to explain, show him that I am listen and nothing ever works. I’m so frustrated cos i do care about him and want him to know that I do hear him. I’m so frustrated what do I do
2026-04-12 06:03:41
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andyjessen5
andyjessen5 :
Hi I’m a 56 year old man. I lost my best friends my soul mate course I’m guilty of not listening. Even though I heard everything she had said and I thought I was listening it turns out that I don’t really know how to listen to somebody properly. I’m in the process of seeing a counsellor and hopefully they can help me to listen properly so I can become a better man for it. Thank you.
2026-03-24 11:03:59
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debrawisco
Debra :
What’s bigger is when I speak after question and he doesn’t respond. I try to use humor. I said oh this is what it’ll feel like when I’m a ghost.
2026-03-20 19:05:34
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merkuratplay
Toolman :
This was my biggest revelation, realizing in our argument loop I would always get stuck on intent. And trying to argue, my intent always made her feel invalidated.
2026-02-21 01:34:27
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user_fozzie78
BlueRose :
My husband says “I am doing that…”
2026-03-06 20:39:12
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quinzels_joker
wendy :
I thought it had to fix me. fix the issue but I'm hearing i don't listen.. I explained to the point that I missed the what was said. now I need to learn to stay present. HELP PLEASE.
2026-03-03 20:42:23
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keyadine
Keya Diné :
"Listening is containment"
2026-03-26 19:03:22
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gpear1129
Gpear1129 :
I think this happens for both of us.
2026-03-18 19:30:34
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bellinel
Bellinee :
100%
2026-02-21 16:05:41
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carolynmattesquan
Carolyn Mattes Quan :
niiiice
2026-03-30 18:45:46
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rita.675
user4708357929874 :
The best wording is so far!❤️
2026-02-26 07:30:13
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desert_flatlander
M D Rempe :
he wanted to fix me, not fix the problem
2026-03-12 18:49:32
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megamandy2812
Megamandy2812 :
i think my relation is on the edge of ending because of this issue and i tel him evertyhing to see this behavior but noting changes and i dont know what to do anymore.
2026-03-21 12:32:14
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joevlauysbq
JCman1978 :
Yeaah…. I hide and mask…. We may be separating…. I discovered I have autism/neurodivergence just recently and have context for my life but the damage is done and may be irreconcilable
2026-04-13 01:43:38
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pamjam72
Pamela Blasco72 :
👍👍👍
2026-02-20 20:27:28
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rita.675
user4708357929874 :
💯💯💯
2026-02-26 07:29:20
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soniavargas846
Sonia Vargas :
😳
2026-02-22 04:38:34
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