@therapydebbie: No, the worst person you know’s therapist probably isn’t telling them they’re great DISCLAIMER: TT ≠ therapy and this is an overexaggeration of what this might actually look like in sessions. The client being the “problem” is referring to someone who externalizes their distress rather than viewing how they’re contributing to (or causing!!) it (especially when it comes to relationships, and their goal is to improve said relationships).

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Andi 🌻 :
I lost some clinical edge last week and told my client "wow that's not very cool of you" 😂
2026-02-21 14:14:33
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Allyson ✨ :
“I’m noticing a pattern here, and I’m wondering if you’re open to hear my observations”.
2026-02-20 19:29:13
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Kat :
Unfortunately most people who are the problem don’t tell the full story and leave out the details that make them look bad and only share things that make them look like the victim and are absolutely in therapy being reaffirmed and told how the other party is toxic and how incredibly they are.
2026-02-20 19:24:58
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notashrink
Dani :
"Unfortunately we can't do anything about their behavior, but we can look at your part in this dynamic when you're ready."
2026-02-22 17:21:50
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gloom7105
gloom :
Question, if someone comes to therapy claiming they have a family member that is faking a chronic illness or exaggerating it or just being lazy and using it as an excuse to not have to do the dishes, do you guys see straight through that, or do you believe them?
2026-02-21 08:08:13
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pmacpumpkin
pmacpumpkin :
“Can I ask you a question?” Is when my clients know I’m about to point out a discrepancy 😂
2026-02-21 03:06:05
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Emily ☆ :
“Does it feel like theres any area to claim any accountability here?
2026-02-22 14:52:46
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zoeinukraine
zoeinukraine :
My life has improved in every way possible since I had a good therapist in 2021 who told me I was the problem 😭 Set me free from myself fr
2026-02-21 16:24:51
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meowmeow.kids
MeowMeow & Kids :
Oh, so your job is the same as mine — I’m a divorce lawyer 😆
2026-02-21 00:34:35
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jwcc1831
jwcc1831 :
Do you take session notes with your iPad? I can’t figure out how to use the notepad, is there a good app? Thx!
2026-02-21 12:04:18
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Eggz :
How about BPD Clients resistant to change and continue suffering?
2026-02-22 22:25:27
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fl_therapist_sarah
Fl_therapist_sarah :
You say it so much nicer than I do lol
2026-02-21 12:19:54
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aeshep26
Ashleyy ✨ :
“You can’t say an action is wrong for someone else but justified for yourself” I’m blunt as hell in my sessions 😂
2026-03-09 23:27:05
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kalyn :
As an emotionally intelligent manager coaching a direct report: “Is it possible that you and this person have a different understanding of the situation?”
2026-02-21 16:50:36
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nicolepenneau
Nicole Penneau :
Unfortunately for my therapist I always assume I’m the problem.
2026-02-21 15:04:21
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gator450
gator450 :
You don’t know how helpful you’ve been to clinicians- thank you.
2026-02-20 21:14:27
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Fi-Nyx Risen 🐦‍🔥 🌈 :
"Now, imagine if that was done to you. How would you feel about it?"
2026-02-22 15:29:51
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batstatus_
BatStatus_ :
My entire stint as a therapist in a middle/high school 😂 it was just this conversation all day every day
2026-02-21 12:13:34
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belle :
This is my biggest fear
2026-03-10 18:06:00
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noxians.muse
noxians.muse :
Not the “sounds like this happens to you repeatedly”😭😂
2026-02-22 08:29:53
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itsthatcatlady
ThatCatLady :
I am the problem. I knew it.
2026-04-10 00:37:30
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daisychain1229
daisy :
I want someone treating me this way instead of affirming me 😳
2026-02-21 15:42:26
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travelstar4
Sana :
I struggle to keep friends and life coaches and therapist have never said I was the problem. The said the label or calling yourself the problem can be damaging. I do see a pattern as someone with autism. I learned I stayed in relationships longer instead of walking away and I do tell the full story what I said or did.
2026-02-21 17:32:04
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sarahmeyers14
𝕊𝕒𝕣𝕒𝕙•°*” :
I wanna hear from someone who actually had an epiphany in therapy that THEYYY were part of the problem!! If that was you pleaseee I wanna hear
2026-02-22 01:42:58
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lizzygirl816
Your Tik Tok Therapist ❤️ :
When we have to work even harder 😩
2026-02-23 04:20:15
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