@dustythunder_: The one where they said she didn’t DESERVE HER BABY… PART 1! “WIBTA if I don’t attend my friends baby shower because they said my pregnancy was an accident and that I didn’t deserve it?” #redditstory #storytime #redditstories #reddit_tiktok #part1
I held one of my friends leg while she pushed knowing I was scheduled for a DNC the next day. True friends celebrate their friends blessings no matter their circumstances.
2026-02-21 22:00:34
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myriancdonin :
They’re not your friends
2026-02-20 20:14:21
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Bridgette :
I’m struggling with infertility. I’m currently hand embroidering multiple things for a friend who’s pregnant because I love my friends so much. You don’t take your friends down even if you’re sad.
2026-02-21 15:05:43
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💙 Krystal Schumann 💙 :
They are not your friends my best friend struggled with fertility issues after a miscarriage and when I got pregnant with my second child, I was afraid to tell her just bc I knew announcements made her sad and I wanted to shield her from being sad, but she was so happy for me when I did tell her that I was pregnant and even though she was still sad about her own struggles she became the best godmother to our son (she was even blessed with her rainbow baby 6 months after my 2nd and only found out bc she had to have her gallbladder removed)
2026-02-20 21:08:43
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Nelliemcr :
Never EVER dim your light for for other people. Their issues are their issues. Not yours. Projecting onto you shows they are not your friends.
2026-02-20 23:44:09
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MeggyDoesn’tKnow :
4 seconds in: IMMEDIATELY nta. What the hell?
2026-02-21 08:36:06
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kristycaley :
Well said Candy Thunder.
2026-02-20 20:15:51
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Crystal :
Friends build you up, not rip you down 👎
2026-02-20 21:38:49
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faithcondiff :
My best friend lost a baby when I was pregnant. I didn't knowhow to respond to her, because I knew she was hurting! I talked to her about it and she told me my son brought her healing.
2026-02-21 14:43:50
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Day Bug 🇨🇦 :
30 seconds in and NTA. Those are not friends. Because of their struggles they knew EXACTLY how joyous this was for OP. They are capable of being happy for their friend, while being sad about their struggles. BOTH CAN EXIST.
2026-02-20 21:00:38
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Meghan :
I struggled with fertility and every friend pregnancy was absolutely devastating! Guess what? The only person who knew I was crushed was my husband. I still celebrated the joy for my friends.
2026-02-21 14:46:48
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lorelai2420 :
We struggled with infertility - never had kids. Sometimes a pregnancy announcement will make us a little sad, but we do our best to celebrate with the couple and grieve in private.
2026-02-20 20:59:43
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Kelsey Carter :
I had two miscarriages in the time frame one of my really good friends was pregnant with her first. she didn't want to tell me anything about the pregnancy because she felt so sorry for my situation. but I told her that was ridiculous and so I made sure every week I would send her a cute little things about how the baby was growing, what the baby could be compared to foods, all the fun things and I would celebrate her at every milestone. those people are not friends. yes I was hurting inside because every time I would send her the milestone it just reminded me about the milestones I was no longer hitting. but I was so happy for her that it didn't matter.
2026-04-20 18:04:36
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RaeC💕 :
Normalize not downplaying your good fortune. It’s their job to regulate their own emotions. Not yours.
2026-02-26 18:10:10
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somebody :
I love it when Candy shouts in from the side. 😻😻😻
2026-02-21 22:19:37
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Christine Crespo :
Never downplay your happiness because of someone else. Celebrate yourself, accomplishments, and milestones however you want to.
2026-02-21 21:50:35
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Cheryl | Fit at 40 (something) :
"friends"
2026-04-07 07:12:27
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AAA333 :
are the hosts AI?
2026-04-15 20:22:54
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Nana :
the story was actually worse than I expected from the title
2026-02-20 22:25:06
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SusanRS :
A mom always deserves a baby shower. Married or not.
2026-02-21 04:25:08
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lindaruhland :
My sister couldn't get pregnant & tried ivf a couple times & it still didn't work. They ended up adopting a baby. I was nervous to tell her when I got pregnant shortly after getting married. She was super excited, she even came with to my 1st ultrasound & she loved hearing the heartbeat & seeing baby! They now have 5 kids they adopted & 1 they are fostering right now.
2026-02-21 14:50:52
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karenredfern199 :
I’ve never been able to have kids - but that’s my life and my experience - I would never make my friends feel like that! It’s for me to deal with - I love my friends babies!
2026-02-20 20:48:59
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StrawbAry :
real friends will not dim your light or allow you to dim your own light to make them feel better..
2026-02-25 21:48:58
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user7476285342234 :
Find new friends
2026-02-23 15:35:29
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Charley Bear 🐻💜 :
They are NOT your friends! I have PCOS i am unable to conceive, but that has never stopped me from cheering my friends when the fell (I'm godmother & honorary auntie to my friends kids now 🥰) i will be your cheer leader op 🥳🥳🥳
2026-02-21 17:43:19
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