@daughters.healing: Growing up with a mom who has borderline personality disorder can be extremely confusing. #narcissisticabuserecovery #borderlinemother #bpdsplitting #toxicmom
Any moment where she feels as though she “needs to be there” she’s the best person, the moment that that situations over she’s back to the yelling, cursing me out, telling me how much she hates me. Then blames it on “holding grudges” she’s wonders why I’m cutting her off at 18.
2026-08-15 03:53:36
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js :
When I was in 9th I was grounded for months, almost the entire year and summer. I missed all school activites. The reasons for being grounded always changed. My grades, so I improved. I was 5 min late for curfew, so I would come home half hour early. Didn’t matter, there was always a reason and this lasted until I graduated high school. I lost 4 years and to this day, it’s a joke amongst my friends but she denies it ever happened. 😔
2026-02-20 23:55:55
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Sarah Journals | Faith & Pens :
My mom didn’t talk for me for two weeks after I announced my first pregnancy. Our relationship was never the same after that.
2026-02-24 13:07:40
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Kat ×͜× 💗🎀📀🧁📚 :
I can honestly say this is not true for everyone my daughter and I were super close. She told me everything. It didn’t matter how bad it was. We are besties and I’m excited for her to grow up get married and have babies of her own
2026-04-14 22:09:04
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HoochieMonk :
My mom made a major switch in when I was in 5th grade. I do however think she had both NPD and BPD.
2026-02-22 14:13:45
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80sBaby_🌻💛 :
I never had that version. She never wanted children. But my dad did. She was so resentful of me in particular.
2026-02-23 12:01:55
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Yomom :
This literally happened to me word for word. I’m 44 and still trying to make sense of it. I hold a lot of resentment towards her, thank you for making these videos.
2026-02-22 03:40:00
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Sweetheart85 :
Damn, this is my Mom to a T. 🥺
2026-02-23 20:25:15
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mramos_np :
Felt this to the core of my soul! It’s been the hardest thing I’ve ever had to accept. The loss of the relationship I will never have with her.
2026-03-17 00:16:12
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frenchiemomma83 :
Does go hand in hand with Bipolar Disorder?
2026-02-24 16:11:26
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EdwardsClan :
What if the best friend part component is missing but she has that with your sister
2026-02-22 15:49:37
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Leo🫶🏻 :
Everyday since the age of 10 I’ve literally been my mothers therapist. I’ve been severely depressed since the age of 14, 19 now, still haven’t told her because I’ve never gotten a chance to have her listen to my feelings instead. I genuinely don’t feel like I have a mom, I don’t even feel like her friend, just her therapist
2026-03-22 01:15:14
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Breezy_Bankroll_Baddie :
I’ve never heard something so relevant. I’m almost 40 and I’m still confused and just seeing this…
2026-03-25 20:49:02
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RootedLiving :
Jsut want to say that your authenticity and kindness literally jump through every video you share 🥹 Thank you for being a light!❤️
2026-04-01 00:23:26
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jules :
I remember my pediatrician asking me if I had somewhere else to live, I’m not sure what she saw in my mother to make her ask me when I was 15… but I remember it vividly 🥹
2026-03-23 20:42:01
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MillennialChickenMom :
Thank you
2026-02-21 14:46:11
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oh for cute :
I never thought it was happen, but my mom turned on me. I made the difficult decision to go no contact with her. It’s been 7 years. It’s hard, but my life is much more peaceful.
2026-02-22 15:54:46
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TheAIGuyATL :
hmmm this feels like it hit home.
2026-02-23 13:57:03
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Emmy :
Thank you for this, perfectly describes my relationship with my mother
2026-03-24 20:06:28
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randa7681 :
Yep! Mine is notorious for silent treatment. I got the silent treatment at 21 for a month bc I said I wanted to move in with my now spouse. Then at 29, 2 years of silent treatment bc my divorced dad was helping me look for my first house and now the latest is going on 8 years for some odd reason. I learned to let go and not bother anymore. It’s sad and painful her problem with me is not mine to solve anymore.
2026-02-21 22:39:56
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Klacy Wilson :
25 years later I still hear that I didn’t name my child the name she wanted.
2026-03-26 20:15:02
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thetrashchutee :
Confusing doesn’t even cover it… it’s psychological torture
2026-07-15 17:49:10
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Erika Cortes :
Oh this is spot on
2026-04-12 13:48:48
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HighlyFavored :
Now imagine that daughter is biracial. Her Mom has undiagnosed BPD, a gambling addiction, and abusive! verbally and physically. Not to mention the racial slurs I'd be called. im now 37 and things are coming out, now that im a new Mom.
2026-03-05 17:18:09
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🛸 🧿 🛸 :
It’s the worst
2026-02-21 03:49:13
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