My husband treated me like shit when I was pregnant and my daughter idolizes him........no one also warns you about that.
2026-02-22 04:52:39
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Erica Twiss :
Hard agree. I’m resentful that women have to do it and I have been since I learned about how it works as a kid
2026-02-21 04:40:36
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sadovaia :
Nothing would ever be fair again, no matter what he did ¯\(ツ)/¯
2026-02-21 18:39:18
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Helen :
He’ll, I’m resentful that we have periods 😭
2026-02-22 16:45:44
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yapperholicc :
Like rationally i know this isn’t true and obviously women have autonomy (mostly) but something about ruining my body and literally putting my life at risk to give birth to a child that a man can claim / has rights to just seems misogynistic to me
2026-02-22 00:14:03
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🗝️ :
and then the women spends the majority of the rest of her life tending for that child….being held back lowkey
2026-02-22 00:23:10
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alliereevesatlas :
also if he can't stop drinking for 9 months he has an issue
2026-02-22 12:06:48
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Ruby Miranda :
exactly this.. imagine being pregnant and your partner's having a lovely crisp glass of pinot grigio right under your nose and you're not allowed to. literally fuck off
2026-02-21 19:22:32
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for pETERSBUUUUUUUUU :
thank god thank god thank GOD WE ARE SELF AWARE ENOUGH to be realizing this
2026-02-21 19:03:58
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*Carrem* 🆘️🇺🇲 :
the only way it could ever be fair is if the woman went through all of the physical trauma and then the man took over for the main child rearing afterwards but we all know that doesn't happen
2026-02-21 18:57:05
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cowgirl maddie :
also the permanence of it tbh
2026-02-21 16:02:37
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hdhdhdhdhdhdhd9472 :
not to mention this economy....
2026-02-21 03:50:09
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juno :
And the fact that the child gets the father’s surname 💔
2026-02-22 00:20:16
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theoriginalfamemonster :
I don’t understand these comments saying “but you could adopt” you said you don’t want children; that’s the end of conversation
2026-02-21 19:21:03
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sofasceramics :
omg i would be livid if there was a baby coming out of me and my husband was just THERE???
2026-03-07 04:49:59
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•°𝐬𝐮𝐧𝐧𝐲.°• :
Genuinely I’d be so resentful I’d never expect to be asked to do anything else ever. Wym me sacrificing my body and wellbeing for 9 months isn’t enough to free me from daily chores like cmon now
2026-02-22 18:20:59
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. :
The possibility of Post-partum Psychosis is so scary also. It lasts so long
2026-02-22 20:26:46
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angrybakugoukatsuki :
Exactly this. I’d feel so resentful of my husband that all he has to do is get off once and I have to suffer for a least a year with pregnancy, labor, postpartum and it’s not socially acceptable for the kid to have my last name. I hate the whole “we’re pregnant!”, no the woman’s pregnant, the man can just dip anytime he wants. It’s not fair at all the stuff that women have to go through just to have a kid while the man doesn’t do shit.😭
2026-02-22 17:59:48
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lllamasaurus :
People have watered down how incredibly expensive and sacrificial pregnancy is on women. They’ve also watered down how spectacular of a thing it is to create an organism that literally feeds on you. Lack of appreciation with anything usually leads to resentment.
2026-02-22 18:48:36
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Taylor♉ :
I would be so resentful of losing my identity to motherhood. There's plenty who say "Oh but you can still be you" in this society, to be honest, no you really cant. it's basically a requirement that you align with being a mother, and your world revolves around it, at least for the first several years, if not longer.
2026-02-22 15:35:13
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sarafreaky :
Men go Crazy And very disrespectful, thats why I will NEVER bring Life on this Earth. Next year I will be Sterilisated
2026-02-21 15:45:53
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bruxzizm :
i would need him to WANT to not drink if i couldn’t drink. she shouldn’t have to tell him what to do he should choose it himself. if she’s sacrificing something so should he.
2026-02-21 20:58:56
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lex ☠︎︎ :
my blood is boiling just thinking about it
2026-03-13 16:25:19
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Livxprivate🫀 :
no real cause theres nothing he can do to make up for me going through childbirth
2026-02-22 12:57:55
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