cossy🦋 :
I call that selfishness.They don’t realize how their distance drained you, how it made you question yourself, made you wonder if you were the problem. When you were in their place, you never did that to them,You communicated,You smiled even when you didn’t feel like smiling. You showed up, because they mattered to you. But when it’s their turn, they go mute,They create distance. The happy person you once knew slowly becomes sad. And you’re left asking yourself over and over, “Am I the problem?” You keep reaching out,You keep blaming yourself, not realizing that this isn’t your fault. That’s selfishness, Because loving someone also means considering how your silence affects them. We are all fighting our own battles, yes, but when you care about someone, you don’t leave them in the dark. You give them reassurance. You give them the benefit of doubt. You let them know, “I’m still here. This is just a phase.”
2026-02-26 23:26:51