Jilvan Helen
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Saturday 21 February 2026 19:03:00 GMT
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spiritual.healer :
I cant kiss or hug mine or tell her I love her. it just grosses me out
2026-02-25 19:25:22
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Hollanovfreak :
like mom you won!!! I am out if your way
2026-02-23 08:34:09
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Yehaaaaa :
Imagine chasing the love and emotional safety your whole life just to keep getting disappointed..that pain never leaves you..that hope doesn’t either
2026-02-24 01:10:59
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anetaklaudia90 :
My mother taught me from 8yo how not to need her, so now in my adult life I don’t need her. Shock horror.
2026-02-25 05:53:41
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itsmelyssalys :
People hate consequences
2026-02-25 09:25:32
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Chloe Massey :
It’s like they want you to parent them but don’t want to parent you.
2026-02-23 14:22:32
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🪷 :
Perfect timing. That's exactly what I needed to hear. 🤍
2026-02-22 15:14:18
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julie :
totally agree, today my mum said my 18mth old was spoilt as she has her needs met physically and emotionally just like the rest of my kids because I did what I can to ease dysregulation when my baby cried. I'm like mum it's called meeting their needs it's how parenting is done
2026-02-21 21:26:31
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Roberta :
This is the relationship I have with my dad. I care about him? I enjoy spend some time with him? Of course, but it’s like what you feel for a family friend you see once in a while, not the love and connection you should feel for a parent.
2026-02-23 08:24:09
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anxietyprincess :
The timing of this!! You can’t just cause someone’s trauma their whole life then expect all to be forgiven when it suits them
2026-02-24 08:13:58
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skaiiib :
i can’t even hug my mom…and she don’t even think she’s the reason why
2026-02-25 15:21:01
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KᗩTᕼ 𐚁๋࣭ :
My ex was very unexpressive, acting nonchalant 24/7. When we broke up, it seemed like he didn’t care at all, which hurt me even more and literally destroyed my desire for a living. I was still in contact with him and wanted to win him back, so I stumbled upon a book called Make Him Dangerously Obsessed. Just three days after finishing it, not only did I make him go crazy over me, but I finally began to feel alive again. Truly a life-changing read.
2026-02-25 17:31:16
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ntsako • following :
And forcing personal conversations. It’s not gonna happen
2026-02-27 16:49:46
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Sashaloveee :
Giiiiirl the way i felt this in my soul
2026-02-22 19:01:04
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Izzy :
she wants a super close mom and daughter relationship now that i’m an adult and i just don’t know how to trust and be open to it. u pushed me away for years why now
2026-02-25 14:52:11
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talita malo :
It’s because they need their caretakers now 😏😩
2026-03-02 08:22:13
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marzyyyii :
You worded it perfectly
2026-02-23 10:14:42
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athenakayofficialoldpage :
There are no consequences unless you create them 😂
2026-02-22 20:32:23
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Chloe Massey :
I didn’t choose to have them, they chose to have me, so why should I have to provide and get nothing back. It exhausting bc you can’t fully be yourself or grow and always feels unstable not having what others had.
2026-02-23 14:23:31
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𝖊𝖒𝖎𝖑𝖞 :
they want your soul too
2026-02-24 17:02:33
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Ale✨ :
It’s devastating and lonely, but it’s worse to be just…there… and expected to sweep everything under the rug all the time.
2026-02-22 22:52:40
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Jeanettefranc0 :
As if we weren’t taught love was “conditional”
2026-02-27 17:54:51
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ash.n_makeup :
Thank you for this fr, I blame myself constantly for the current distance, but THIS makes me feel so seen
2026-02-26 00:23:34
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:) :
Literally my dad disvalidates and ignores my feelings all the time and then expects me to care about his ??!😭(I do care cause I feel bad for him but I really shouldn’t cause he makes me feel bad about myself all the time )
2026-02-23 12:03:27
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marlene1_r :
If I ever have kids, they will be my best friends cause what do you mean? I have to be cruel no, I don’t know I don’t.
2026-02-27 23:05:14
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