@anonymous_reflection_: Making these weird videos is a form of catharsis. The act of figuring out my story to tell it is difficult but therapeutic. I’m understanding what happened. I’m upset at this perceived betrayal. I’m upset at her mistakes, at her lack of genuine care despite her lip service, her lack of accountability, and I’m frustrated with my own mistakes as well. I know I could have done better, but now she’s with someone else. The pain is useful, I just hope that I can learn from it PROPERLY and not form twisted ways of viewing it that protect my ego shorter but lead me into the same position a year from now. #breakups #situationship#pain

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vamkp23
Redgrcbj :
There’s a certain respect “owed” to someone you cared about after you break up, you simply don’t get into another relationship just because you’re single. You have every right to be upset, to be jealous, to be hurt. But don’t let it control you, it just means she didn’t care about you as much as you thought - sorry to say this.
2026-02-23 02:47:53
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thebreakupjournal. :
Wait is this a new breakup
2026-02-22 08:47:32
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𝓢𝓱𝓪𝓷𝓷𝓮𝓵 :
The fact that nobody is talking about the forbidden book The Forbidden Codex of Influence by Julian Voss is crazy, you guys are missing a hidden knowledge...
2026-02-24 15:39:53
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_xanayahbanana
xena. :
What you’re feeling is VALID, heartbreak, betrayal, frustration. All of it is real, even if the logic says it “shouldn’t” hurt. But here’s the truth: once the relationship ended, she no longer owes you loyalty. Holding on to expectations of what she should have done only keeps you tied to pain that isn’t yours to carry. Focus instead on your own growth and accountability. Reflect on your mistakes, yes, but don’t weaponize them against yourself, let them guide you to better choices, clearer boundaries, and emotional resilience. Pain is only useful if it teaches, not traps. Release the story you’re clinging to about her actions. The narrative you tell yourself can either imprison you or empower you. Choose empowerment. Let this experience sharpen your understanding of love, self-worth, and emotional honesty. :)))
2026-02-22 11:50:17
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mikaelaesposo
mikaela :
bro it’s actually insane tho how u pop up every time im going through relationship problems myself like God knows 😂✌️
2026-02-22 10:23:00
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Dzx707 :
one foot in front of the other
2026-02-22 07:55:22
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samc271106
AV :
if you have ever gone through a breakup and asked what did I do wrong the forbidden codex of influence by Julian Voss actually gives some uncomfortable answers.
2026-03-24 16:15:47
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nothierryy
thierry :
Wait is this the same ex from a year ago?!
2026-02-22 15:57:50
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landen0824
Landen24 :
bro I remember when you were posting content like this around a year ago, and you honestly helped me so much. you had this one video I would always look back at where you were sitting on a tree
2026-02-22 08:18:11
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willk_no10
Will :
life is more than just love and relationship
2026-02-24 23:31:59
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tim.clarke891
Tim Clarke :
Dude, u have no idea how this video made me cry and healed me in the process. I thought no one could understand me. And there u are.
2026-02-22 18:42:26
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miiiiihau
m :
Dude i fucked up
2026-02-23 20:32:00
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itsmekent1
￴￴ ￴ ￴￴￴￴￴ ￴ ￴￴￴￴ ￴￴ ￴￴ ￴￴￴￴￴ :
bro mine dated someone else after a weeks
2026-04-04 19:08:06
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plybybvnny
Plybybvnny :
Man… this feeling sucks. and im gonna tell you something you’ve probably heard, and dont want to hear. the best thing for you is to not have contact any more. Theres only gonna be more things like this that upset you and interrupt your healing. im sorry youre going through this and i believe you can get over it. much love 🙏🏾
2026-02-22 08:21:47
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Jason Liu📷 :
why would you hang out again after a break up ? if you break up due to differences and view points of life then why going in reverse and not forward?
2026-02-22 21:47:16
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_mahirjawad_
Jawad :
hey man, prolly u Won't see this but live for yourself, even tho another girl comes around, u gotta live for yourself only. I understand you and i know exactly how you feel. But you gotta love for yourself and that's the only way you'll be able to fix your mistakes. if you dont get this now, youll get this again by something else, but eventually, youll know exactly what i'm saying. goodluck
2026-02-22 19:16:55
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gnarlyarc
Gnarly :
i feel you bro, in my opinion she should grief that relationship a bit longer or just avoid dating. But i think that if you stay in contact with her you’re gonna only hurt yourself. I recommend you cut that girl loose The less you know the better, stop trying to find whose fault was that and where did you failed. Just let her go, i know that might only sound easy but it’s the best option. You tried your best, try becoming the best version of yourself.
2026-02-22 16:08:39
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chanmyhuong79
Chân Mỹ Hương :
maybe that relationship doesnt fit you. a healthy relationship will make you relaxed, make you be better version of yourself, inspire you to love other people and be more tolerant more calm
2026-02-22 14:40:36
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epepepe48
Jang_shina_ :
Bro is always falling in love
2026-02-23 16:33:05
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ancala121
Ximena Calderón :
In my grief, I realized you should be around people who love you, because it’s exhausting trying to make someone love you when they don’t.
2026-04-07 00:15:05
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sanerkyodai
Sanerrr :
the self awareness u got is what people lacks nowadays clouding their judgement
2026-03-17 18:37:18
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chocomeng1004
CHOMENG :
permasalahan internasional ternyata😔
2026-03-12 05:25:54
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visualimpact.ug
@Visual Impact.Ug :
bro we've been together for 3years and she chose someone else I don't know even where to start honestly Help me anyone , I'm in a bad place right now , I don't think I can love again, 3years gone just like that , I did everything right
2026-05-21 18:22:14
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nax1.1.1
dav💤 :
this new man?
2026-04-14 00:48:50
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aleeeliaiueo
ale ⋆‧°𓏲ּ𝄢 :
bro… i don’t remember talking to you about all my thoughts……
2026-04-20 01:53:26
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