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nepttune_24 :

I’ve been reading the comments here and honestly, a lot of women are also admitting that yes, we make mistakes too. Nobody is saying women are perfect. But sometimes the reason a woman reacts or develops certain habits is because something in the relationship isn’t being addressed. Many men don’t communicate — they avoid the conversation or give silent treatment. And honestly, some men can give even worse silent treatment than women. Sometimes a woman isn’t trying to start a fight. She just wants to feel heard, understood, and safe again in the relationship. There might be issues that were never fully understood or talked about, and instead of working through them together, some people just choose to leave. This is just based on my own experience and also what I’ve observed from my friends’ relationships. I’m not saying this applies to everyone, so please don’t take it personally.

billyjones445 :

she's trying to make me seem like I'm crazy I know I'm not crazy

Chris pamma 🥴 :

@lilpamma

Roxanne Miller 🇨🇦 :

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Ruby💕 :

Have you guys… talked to women?

nepttune_24 :

I’m just sharing my experience, guys. This is based on my second and third Australian ex. Maybe some people will understand, maybe some won’t. With my second ex, the reason we broke up was because he was very insecure. He liked comparing himself to others and talking badly about people, even other men. I don’t like that kind of attitude — I don’t like anyone who talks badly about others, whether it’s men or women. He also prioritized video games and OnlyFans. If you know what OnlyFans is, that was one of the reasons. Sometimes he would rather spend money on OnlyFans than pay for something simple like a $7 meal for me, even just once. And just to clarify, I have my own job. I pay my own bills, and I even helped with some of his bills because I was earning more than him. My third ex was also Australian. I would describe him as a “bogan” type. His family is Catholic and probably middle class. There are five siblings and he was the youngest. I was the first Asian girlfriend he ever had, and as a Filipina living in Australia by myself for four years, I was also older and more experienced.One problem was that he was a bit of a mama’s boy. Even with basic things like checking his bank balance, he didn’t know how to do it through the banking app on his phone. Instead, he would drive about 10 minutes just to check it at an ATM. I kept telling him it would be easier to just use the app, but he said it was “too hard.”He’s actually one year younger than me — he’s 22 and I’m turning 24 this Sunday.Another thing I didn’t like was his friend group. His best friend had a “fuckboy” lifestyle and would share very personal stories about different girls. I don’t like that kind of behavior, whether it’s men or women. Sometimes the people you surround yourself with can influence you, especially when things go wrong in life.The final reason we broke up was because he was influenced a lot by his mom, his sister-in-law, and that best friend. In his family, they’re all overweight, and I was the first Asian girlfriend he ever introduced. Instead of understanding my concerns as a partner, he made it look like I was the bad one, when all I wanted was respect and security in the relationship

Rico :

Timing is crazy 😂

🎀canito_teffy🎀 :

ok but where was this and Make Him Your Pet by Mia Ema Lopez when i was crying over my ex last year

atlatlatl :

danielkumar00 :

facts

Shawnlove300 :

Hussain Maslah :

nepttune_24 :

This isn’t about women vs men. This is about respect and proper communication in general. Women deal with hormones, period pain, and birth control side effects every month. If you have concerns, don’t bring them up when a woman is already emotional, and don’t share your relationship problems with your friends because it only adds more miscommunication. A lot of the ‘man-haters’ or ‘woman-haters’ you see on FYP are usually people who are still hurt and not fully healed. If you want a good partner, then both sides also need to have good understanding and communication.

Croitoru Denis :

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nepttune_24 :

He liked going to pubs and clubs. He would say he wasn’t entertaining other girls, but he was okay with being hugged or touched by them. For me, I’m not even comfortable with people touching me casually, even friends. I never tried to control him — those were his choices — but it became a boundary issue between us. In the end, he broke up with me because I became emotional. The next day, I got my period, so it made sense why my emotions were stronger. That’s why when I see posts on FYP saying ‘men don’t leave because of one mistake but because it becomes a habit,’ I can understand the point. But from a woman’s perspective, there’s always more to the story. At the end of the day, this isn’t just about men or women. It’s about people in general and how we communicate in relationships.

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Bert :

yeah allways when they realise you won't leave, they start disrespecting you More and More, then once you have had enough, they Be wondering where did he go? or "why did i lose him" well think for a second

reysoyum :

TL40Unfiltered :

don't show this to me. show it to her

nepttune_24 :

And just to add to my story — my ex was already on a dating app about a month after our breakup. We broke up on November 8 last year, and I only found out around the end of December. I heard about it from his workmates and from his older brother, because I’m still in contact with his third older brother. Apparently, it was his best friend — the same ‘fuckboy’ best friend — who helped him create the dating app account. What’s ironic is that his best friend joined the dating app the day after the breakup, and my ex joined about a month later.

nepttune_24 :

But the problem is, he went into the dating app thinking he had already moved on, without realizing that he was probably just looking for a rebound. So my advice to everyone: when you’re still hurt from a breakup, don’t rush into dating apps and don’t start entertaining new relationships right away. Most of the time, when people do that, they’re not fully healed yet. They’re just trying to fill the space that someone else left. Sometimes people think they’re ready for a new relationship, but in reality, they just miss the intimacy or the feeling of being with someone.

👑 𝒀𝒂𝒘 𝑻𝒎𝒆𝒈 💙 :

Perfecto 😏

T ᥫ᭡.ִֶָ𓂃 :

Don’t think about what u need too much u will lost it one day

the no one :

if you put respect first in love then i think its not love its also not means that u are abusive or other is abusive but in love you have to bear all

wesley_psycho2 :

And they always wanna prove that they’re always right 😏

Cain :

Timing wow

چوہدری عمیر تارڑ :

The timing is insane

yum’s :

win ! 💗🫶🏻

Jacob Beck :

Real

Danish shaikh :

forgived 3 times her cheating on me, but when it became habiitual i walked out peacefully

Miss Anni🧸🖤 :

Tsuipss😂😂

Ananta Shrestha :

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thel0newarr10r :

only commenting because she can see my likes and repost

luxxbom4 :

Won’t repost but know i was here

Rayne :

True 😂

Davi Kings :

KakiBolaMalaya :

some people don't understand

玄|真嗣 :

Timing lol

tycxm :

MOAWIA_SAIF🇸🇩🇺🇬🇸🇦99 :

Facts

ahs_oka :

Deadass

Lall :

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V I N Z :

True "Women get comfortable disrespecting the men who love them"

Daniel :

This !

bobby 🐼 :

Real 💯

Jason teka :

Facts