I feel like this about a lot of musicians too. I am happy to be friends with musicians but never date. My mother was the person paying all the bills for my (washed up) musician stepfather. 😩
2026-02-23 11:39:20
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Malri :
Love is Blind is just another adventure they don’t have to plan or pay for.
2026-02-22 20:47:13
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sprinklywinkly :
As soon as I see them wearing those bracelets I know it’s over
2026-02-22 20:02:27
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Jess Baker, MS Nutrition :
LOL, I’m a climber and I’ve never wanted to date climbers either but I couldn’t name why until now. This makes total sense. And a lot of them prioritize climbing over their careers.
2026-02-23 16:46:01
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Thepeoplesprincess :
I live near Whistler and Squamish Canada and all of this is true! The climbing culture has hugely impacted the dating culture in the lower mainland. Even guys with jobs with responsibilities have all encompassing hobbies that are prioritized over everything. It’s the perfect excuse.
2026-02-22 19:48:43
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✨️Tall Travel Girl✨️ :
climbers are often convinced they're enlightened, and tend to be somewhat snobby about it if you're not a climber.
2026-02-23 04:57:43
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existentialscenery :
please do more videos on the grizzly man omg
2026-02-23 01:09:05
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paellanotienechorizo :
The more you enlighten me, the more I realize I just pure lucked out that my outdoorsman husband is the way he is & that he even listens to me, let alone at a deep level. We’ve bounced around everywhere together and then I got hit by disability & we relocated to my ancestral homeland- a language he doesn’t even speak (he’s actively learning dw)- & I don’t work bc I’m fully fxcking disabled & he works his aaaaaaaaassssssss off, cooks every meal, is the main parent, does all the cleaning, clothes, like he does EVERYTHING. I seem like Patricia Pan on paper or even at first impression til someone realizes how effed my body is (EDS, ME/CFS *&* Long ‘vid & MCAS & my spine dislocates and my brain is sticking into my neck- Chiari- my body is trashed at 33)
2026-09-24 21:10:10
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Nyx 🌙 :
I WAS WAITING FOR YOUR TAAAAKEEEEEE
2026-02-23 06:54:23
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mirmbon45 :
Can you please make a video of your experience in Argentina and Chile?
2026-03-01 20:48:43
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amy_alpaca-parka-ot7 :
I feel the same about surfers.
2026-02-22 19:46:55
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Erika Hirsch 🍉 :
I bet you didn’t pretend crypto is a real job tho…
2026-02-23 00:45:16
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V :
Nomadic=in need of shelter
2026-02-24 21:01:11
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Scarlet 🩷💜💙 :
Join 4b!
2026-02-22 23:51:50
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Le Petit Spence :
Avoidant attachmant style but make it a personality
2026-02-25 21:18:41
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ClareyFairyMarie :
And of course his “Hobby” will also take up the majority of the family income! Everything will be the top of the line or the “professional” grade equipment. With My Ex it was computers/audio/visual tec and gaming AND racing sports cars. Continuous upgrades and improvements, lessons, track days new tyres etc, etc. Absolutely zero thought about risk and death/disability which wouldn’t have been covered by his life insurance. We had two daughters, he didn’t care one bit. He wasn’t even any good at racing, he crashed every new car he ever owned and that was off the track. Being dragged along to freezing, dirty, noisy race meets bloody miles away every single weekend/holiday! If I didn’t play loving, proud wifey the fallout and ramifications were unbearable. I resented him so much I got to the stage where I’d literally daydream of him dying and that made it bearable. Been divorced 16 years now and sadly he’s still not dead but here’s hoping 🤞🏻
2026-02-22 22:42:36
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amzy :
don't date man..
2026-02-23 06:36:43
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Catherine :
You’re spot on. Dated a man who worked in radio, moved all the time, and 10 years older than me in my late 20s. It was like dating a teenager, I was young but even then I was so far ahead of him mentally, emotionally, financially.
2026-02-22 19:45:22
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audreytwo5 :
I am DYING for you to dissect the Peter Pan bravo bros (specifically Kyle, shep & Schwartz)
2026-02-23 03:48:12
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nonks_nonduh :
You dissect this so perfectly
2026-02-22 20:44:10
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oonoklor :
That’s interesting ..either always at home or never at home
2026-02-22 23:19:19
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whitneym879 :
been waiting on your takes of the men on this season of LIB 🍿🍿🍿
2026-02-23 00:46:41
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🐆 :
your opinions on stuff always matter to me queen
2026-02-23 01:30:46
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yip :
Peter Pan Spectrum yes. Men cosplay in "protector and provider" roles while most women I know are actually having to work around their inconsideration, exhaustingly, actually protecting and providing.
2026-02-23 17:32:43
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Brigitte (RTC) :
Patricia pan 🤣 you are so good!
2026-02-24 02:51:43
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trashcanprincessart :
I'm a touring musician and no way would I ever date a musician, especially a man and especially one that isn't actively performing regularly. I KNOW how hard it is to maintain relationships doing what I do and it often does mean running yourself a little ragged if you want to keep love and friendship on the table... and so many men just think all they have to do is be a "free spirit"
2026-02-23 20:24:07
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𝓨i :
a documentary will be coming out about Alex
2026-02-23 05:23:47
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Whoneedsaname :
This got me thinking about the dynamic of flamboyant gay men and their straight women best friends……. The amount of work those female friends do for rhem
2026-02-23 13:47:22
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Bruiser Overland 🇨🇦 :
Triathletes and climbers 😂😂
2026-02-23 14:24:55
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bread :
every time he says he's a nomad it makes me cringe so bad
2026-02-24 08:15:55
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Holly Haeseler :
They’re like male trap-door spiders who go out on adventures to mate. They die quickly but it’s worth it to mate. Men are no different
2026-02-23 16:11:01
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LadyLawyerWarrior :
You would love Peter by Taylor Swift 🫶
2026-02-23 20:23:12
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Leavemealone :
Sing it. Agreed!
2026-02-23 01:09:02
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Britta Hansen :
it's like that Alone show... so many men sitting in a makeshift smelter in the middle of DUMBf*ck nowhere crying about how much they miss their wives and kids... Sir.!!! why did you do this instead of staying home and being present in their lives? "But I wanted to do this, to make them proud of me!!"... 😑 Sir.... they don't care about that, they just want you to be there for them.
2026-02-26 00:00:11
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Melina Benches :
Ty
2026-02-23 15:36:08
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pricklyatheart :
I’d love to hear more about your time in Argentina and Chile!
2026-02-23 15:09:03
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joselyn hughes :
cyclists
2026-02-23 16:51:30
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ewa1282 :
I agree....
2026-02-22 20:59:05
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1971 :
Facts
2026-02-24 22:40:10
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