@mackenzieherman: Avoidants don’t struggle to feel. They struggle with what feelings require. #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentissues #fyppage #avoidantattachmentstyle #avoidantex
That’s why I never stopped reaching out to him while he was ghosting me. So he’d feel safe to return
2026-02-25 01:53:25
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Karen Burling :
Absolutely not. They move on. While you think it’s no contact. They are over. They don’t sit back and see how they hurt you.
2026-02-23 22:55:57
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bavisti :
They don't miss you. They miss how you made them fill. They miss supply, not person.
2026-02-24 16:30:53
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Therapy :
avoidants will also miss the other 5 exes on their rosters.
2026-02-24 15:15:31
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Hussam 🇮🇶 :
Anything but accountability huh
2026-02-23 23:20:13
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ivorycarnia :
as an avoidant the reason i don’t reach out, even when i miss them, is because its just not fair for them. its not fair for me to choose them some days and not on others. its not fair that i put them through the deep emtional lows of being discarded and the insane emotional highs of being chosen. its not fair to play that game and i know it. if i chose to cut them off that, for me, is final. avoidants do love, but its just not in the traditional ways we were taught love to be. and yes maybe its toxic but their feelings are as real as the hatred you have for their behaviour. be patient please, and never judge before fully understanding someone. xx
2026-02-25 17:46:15
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Sou :
He came back, took accountability, is in therapy and apologised for everything but idk if i can ever trust him again
2026-03-08 19:34:24
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Peachy Boo :
They dont care actually
2026-02-24 13:13:29
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🫥 :
The say they miss you but don't act on it. They just want a pen pal.
2026-02-24 14:02:24
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David :
that's not even missing someone, they miss the feeling of controlling someone..
2026-02-24 08:43:33
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yolee_bella :
Oh, they reach out. They just never addressed what the rupture was and don’t try to repair. It’s heartbreaking. It’s never about what they did really it’s about the lack of accountability and acknowledgment after the rupture
2026-02-24 02:51:10
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Norah | Pilates Instructor :
She doesn’t miss me at all.
2026-02-24 01:32:47
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Benjamin 🍄 :
We aren’t friends but we are not enemies. I wish her peace.
2026-02-24 00:19:39
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T a m a r r a ♡︎ :
Not all move on to another person, sometimes they self isolate and over extend on hobbies like the gym or work. At least that is what I’ve experienced with an FA
2026-02-26 14:33:33
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itsamy_gdala :
That sounds very mature actually, because sometimes they do reach out to say, “I miss you” and then disappear again, re-destroying a nervous system that was just beginning to heal.
2026-02-24 07:06:11
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user6743053907950 :
After they rejected you. No problem rejecting you, but them facing rejection, that’s too much.
2026-02-24 17:54:55
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Kristal 💎 :
they dont care.
2026-03-19 04:27:18
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Leigh 🇨🇦 :
I’m convinced he doesn’t miss me, he was so cold to me at the end
2026-02-24 21:03:52
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Steph :
Well now I feel bad for blocking him. I just couldn’t keep the door open anymore. It had been a full year 😞
2026-02-24 03:55:56
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Jorge :
So, how do we get them to feel safe enough to reach back out when they’re ready?
2026-02-23 22:33:26
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rpr.219 :
but he left himself...
2026-02-24 23:35:21
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TMS 🇨🇦🇮🇪 :
But if I reach out then I look needy and they’ll run?
2026-02-24 06:03:50
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Ms. Denise 💛 :
Do they ever change? 😔
2026-02-23 22:26:41
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Jemorii :
i doubt, their's someone else already 😮💨😮💨😮💨
2026-02-23 23:31:52
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