@mackenzieherman: Avoidants don’t struggle to feel. They struggle with what feelings require. #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentissues #fyppage #avoidantattachmentstyle #avoidantex

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karenburling
Karen Burling :
Absolutely not. They move on. While you think it’s no contact. They are over. They don’t sit back and see how they hurt you.
2026-02-23 22:55:57
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therapyog
Therapy :
avoidants will also miss the other 5 exes on their rosters.
2026-02-24 15:15:31
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hussam_.x
Hussam 🇮🇶 :
Anything but accountability huh
2026-02-23 23:20:13
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jayne.is
巧 :
as an avoidant the reason i don’t reach out, even when i miss them, is because its just not fair for them. its not fair for me to choose them some days and not on others. its not fair that i put them through the deep emtional lows of being discarded and the insane emotional highs of being chosen. its not fair to play that game and i know it. if i chose to cut them off that, for me, is final. avoidants do love, but its just not in the traditional ways we were taught love to be. and yes maybe its toxic but their feelings are as real as the hatred you have for their behaviour. be patient please, and never judge before fully understanding someone. xx
2026-02-25 17:46:15
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bavisti
bavisti :
They don't miss you. They miss how you made them fill. They miss supply, not person.
2026-02-24 16:30:53
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davidgemss
David :
that's not even missing someone, they miss the feeling of controlling someone..
2026-02-24 08:43:33
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soux2003
Sou🖤 :
He came back, took accountability, is in therapy and apologised for everything but idk if i can ever trust him again
2026-03-08 19:34:24
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baby_dumpling8
Peachy Boo :
They dont care actually
2026-02-24 13:13:29
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shee22va
✨ Inha ✨ :
oh yes. As an Avoidant, he added me on Instagram, i miss him more than everything but i wont say anything. I prefer silence than being vulnerable.
2026-02-25 22:22:42
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yolee_bella
yolee_bella :
Oh, they reach out. They just never addressed what the rupture was and don’t try to repair. It’s heartbreaking. It’s never about what they did really it’s about the lack of accountability and acknowledgment after the rupture
2026-02-24 02:51:10
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becomingbenjamin
Benjamin 🍄 :
We aren’t friends but we are not enemies. I wish her peace.
2026-02-24 00:19:39
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wellnessbynorah
Norah | Pilates Instructor :
She doesn’t miss me at all.
2026-02-24 01:32:47
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stratasystem
STRATA :
Their phone is full of replacements
2026-03-25 12:28:06
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d0oodle2
🫥 :
The say they miss you but don't act on it. They just want a pen pal.
2026-02-24 14:02:24
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marraxoxo
T a m a r r a ♡︎ :
Not all move on to another person, sometimes they self isolate and over extend on hobbies like the gym or work. At least that is what I’ve experienced with an FA
2026-02-26 14:33:33
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itsamy_gdala
itsamy_gdala :
That sounds very mature actually, because sometimes they do reach out to say, “I miss you” and then disappear again, re-destroying a nervous system that was just beginning to heal.
2026-02-24 07:06:11
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hey_itjaydion13
hey_itjaydion13 :
Can we just move on the to healing because i still doubting myself if I am the avoidant or the person that got hurt .. how to heal ? Does it mean don’t ever go back and don’t date people at all . Chase I attract to the same behavior. So I don’t date anymore
2026-02-25 14:45:24
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pnnkrstllcnt
Kristal 💎 :
they dont care.
2026-03-19 04:27:18
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ladyjane1985
user6743053907950 :
After they rejected you. No problem rejecting you, but them facing rejection, that’s too much.
2026-02-24 17:54:55
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patsyleigh8
Leigh 🇨🇦 :
I’m convinced he doesn’t miss me, he was so cold to me at the end
2026-02-24 21:03:52
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therapyog
Therapy :
all of that because of fear, sigh.
2026-02-24 05:14:11
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rpr.219
rpr.219 :
but he left himself...
2026-02-24 23:35:21
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darylasig
Daryla :
Don’t think that’s true
2026-02-24 21:00:52
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tmsferguson
TMS 🇨🇦🇮🇪 :
But if I reach out then I look needy and they’ll run?
2026-02-24 06:03:50
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morgenrot777
Morgenrot :
nah they don't care
2026-02-24 13:43:04
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