@mackenzieherman: Avoidants don’t struggle to feel. They struggle with what feelings require. #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentissues #fyppage #avoidantattachmentstyle #avoidantex

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pocketsquiddy
pocketsquiddy :
That’s why I never stopped reaching out to him while he was ghosting me. So he’d feel safe to return
2026-02-25 01:53:25
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karenburling
Karen Burling :
Absolutely not. They move on. While you think it’s no contact. They are over. They don’t sit back and see how they hurt you.
2026-02-23 22:55:57
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bavisti
bavisti :
They don't miss you. They miss how you made them fill. They miss supply, not person.
2026-02-24 16:30:53
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therapyog
Therapy :
avoidants will also miss the other 5 exes on their rosters.
2026-02-24 15:15:31
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hussam_.x
Hussam 🇮🇶 :
Anything but accountability huh
2026-02-23 23:20:13
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ivorycarnia
ivorycarnia :
as an avoidant the reason i don’t reach out, even when i miss them, is because its just not fair for them. its not fair for me to choose them some days and not on others. its not fair that i put them through the deep emtional lows of being discarded and the insane emotional highs of being chosen. its not fair to play that game and i know it. if i chose to cut them off that, for me, is final. avoidants do love, but its just not in the traditional ways we were taught love to be. and yes maybe its toxic but their feelings are as real as the hatred you have for their behaviour. be patient please, and never judge before fully understanding someone. xx
2026-02-25 17:46:15
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soux2003
Sou :
He came back, took accountability, is in therapy and apologised for everything but idk if i can ever trust him again
2026-03-08 19:34:24
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baby_dumpling8
Peachy Boo :
They dont care actually
2026-02-24 13:13:29
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d0oodle2
🫥 :
The say they miss you but don't act on it. They just want a pen pal.
2026-02-24 14:02:24
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davidgemss
David :
that's not even missing someone, they miss the feeling of controlling someone..
2026-02-24 08:43:33
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yolee_bella
yolee_bella :
Oh, they reach out. They just never addressed what the rupture was and don’t try to repair. It’s heartbreaking. It’s never about what they did really it’s about the lack of accountability and acknowledgment after the rupture
2026-02-24 02:51:10
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wellnessbynorah
Norah | Pilates Instructor :
She doesn’t miss me at all.
2026-02-24 01:32:47
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becomingbenjamin
Benjamin 🍄 :
We aren’t friends but we are not enemies. I wish her peace.
2026-02-24 00:19:39
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marraxoxo
T a m a r r a ♡︎ :
Not all move on to another person, sometimes they self isolate and over extend on hobbies like the gym or work. At least that is what I’ve experienced with an FA
2026-02-26 14:33:33
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itsamy_gdala
itsamy_gdala :
That sounds very mature actually, because sometimes they do reach out to say, “I miss you” and then disappear again, re-destroying a nervous system that was just beginning to heal.
2026-02-24 07:06:11
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ladyjane1985
user6743053907950 :
After they rejected you. No problem rejecting you, but them facing rejection, that’s too much.
2026-02-24 17:54:55
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pnnkrstllcnt
Kristal 💎 :
they dont care.
2026-03-19 04:27:18
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patsyleigh8
Leigh 🇨🇦 :
I’m convinced he doesn’t miss me, he was so cold to me at the end
2026-02-24 21:03:52
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steph.4578
Steph :
Well now I feel bad for blocking him. I just couldn’t keep the door open anymore. It had been a full year 😞
2026-02-24 03:55:56
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jjlouis860
Jorge :
So, how do we get them to feel safe enough to reach back out when they’re ready?
2026-02-23 22:33:26
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rpr.219
rpr.219 :
but he left himself...
2026-02-24 23:35:21
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tmsferguson
TMS 🇨🇦🇮🇪 :
But if I reach out then I look needy and they’ll run?
2026-02-24 06:03:50
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denisedanielle45
Ms. Denise 💛 :
Do they ever change? 😔
2026-02-23 22:26:41
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jemerehh
Jemorii :
i doubt, their's someone else already 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨
2026-02-23 23:31:52
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