exactly. that “as he should” attitude is so low vibrational. just say thank you 😭
2026-02-23 23:07:37
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chelsea :
there's so much toxic relationship advice online this is refreshing
2026-02-23 23:56:09
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savage_witch07 :
you should uphold yourself to the same standards that you expect from your partner, so If you want to feel valued in a relationship then obviously you should make your partner also feel valued and appreciated
2026-02-23 22:39:20
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Aleisha | Real Talk & Humour :
Having standards 🤝 still being appreciative 🥰
2026-02-24 17:46:27
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camihu2000 :
That is the bare minimum but you should ALWAYS thank them✨
2026-02-24 02:44:14
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🌱ialee_1 :
You’ve put into a video what I’ve been thinking for a while. The “bare minimum” mentality is applied to everything it’s so annoying. When most of the times it’s not the bare minimum and it’s not “as he should” he did it out of love and actually deserves appreciation
2026-02-24 18:50:20
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Lexy Puhlick :
Gratitude is always key ✨
2026-02-24 01:31:12
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War Violet :
Yes! Gratitude also brings in more things to be grateful for
2026-02-24 22:02:55
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Shay :
I highly agree!! Not only do you present yourself as more feminine & classy but it’s also gonna allow the guy to want to do more for you 🤍
2026-02-24 04:20:50
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LEX 🩺 :
I always do this bc i feel SO RUDE being any other way. We’ve confused “knowing our worth” with being freaking rude lol
2026-02-24 21:22:46
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Mandy :
It should be noted you look so amazing with dark hair!!
2026-03-14 16:54:59
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lwwcs2511 :
Acknowledgement and gratitude
2026-02-24 12:21:03
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Tatiana Nowotny :
My fiancé thanked me the other day that I always say thank you, whether he cooks me dinner or takes me out. Because I really am so grateful for it!!
2026-02-24 16:23:28
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the princess :
Exactly!! Positive reinforcement ppl
2026-02-25 16:20:05
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❀⋆.ೃ࿔ꕤ。˚⋆ :
omg yes! tiktok videos are so misleading to real healthy relationships. if people followed social media ideology then everyone’s gonna be miserable 😭
2026-02-24 22:07:08
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jonnyrotten :
Be classy and understated. He will recognize how much you’ve accomplished without you throwing it in his face. I married one of them
2026-02-25 19:28:15
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Yovela Debesay :
my mom says this all the timeee
2026-02-24 03:32:17
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gypsynobles :
This was me MAMACITA and I am so grateful to be out of that stage of my life. I was actually mad all the time.
2026-02-23 22:39:24
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Lauren Chavez :
It’s a balance of having standards but still being graceful and appreciative.
2026-02-25 01:16:42
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James Herrick - Baldys Farm :
As a man, this is all we want too. The lower the bar of expectation, the more likely a good man will respond with your wants and desires. The more obligated it becomes, the more likely it comes from a place of peacocking than love.
2026-02-24 07:51:02
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Lizzie_Paige :
Financial status will always change but emotional intelligence stays pretty constant, that’s why it’s important to be with someone who genuinely gets you and cares for you regardless of any financial circumstances
2026-02-24 14:25:20
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Elsie :
Yes. There’s a difference between bare minimum to even get to date you or hang around you and then how you treat somebody on the daily that you’ve decided to accept.
2026-02-24 15:48:53
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Katie Kunzler | FITNESS COACH :
absolutely
2026-02-23 23:36:14
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myral ๑˚₊🍓꒱ :
tapi betul. we always have to thank them
2026-02-26 11:32:15
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