@afterlove.pod: He is not gonna change, is he? And maybe the saddest part isn’t that he won’t… It’s that I stayed long enough hoping he would. I kept believing in potential. In apologies. In “this time will be different.” But patterns don’t lie. Effort does. And love shouldn’t feel like convincing someone to treat you right. I guess the real question was never if he would change… It was when I was finally going to. #HealingJourney #chooseyourself #breakup #afterlove

NixLot :

I'm begging every girl who feels like this to read Why He Picks Her by Victoria Hayes. It will change your life.

ᰔ𝓮𝔂✰ :

“and love shouldn’t feel like convincing someone to treat you right”

lola_1814 :

But I want it to be him…

Bre :

So sick of gaslighting myself into thinking it’s not that bad

Samuel Griffith :

they never do.

Sammy 🇨🇦🪶 :

I miss him but I had to end that chapter

𑣲 𝑨𝒓𝒓𝒊 :

If I wait for him, it won't be me. If I move on, it won't be him.

_AfterDarkTales_ :

For all heart broken girlies, it does get better, I've been there and once u meet the right person u will forget all the bad things that happened. I married the best man who treats me correctly and you will find one too.🖤 ly all

Saya :

I gave him one more chance, didn’t change, i left him

sans :

I wanted him to be the right person bc he felt right. He felt like home. But my person wouldn’t make me feel the way I do. And that’s the hardest pill to swallow.

Sabrina Zanella :

Stayed until I felt nothing for him, I realized I was happier when he wasn’t around me

🤷🏻‍♀️ :

timing is crazy

Cara Cross :

Best advice I was given:- “It’s not how you feel about him, it’s about how he makes you feel”.

. :

He won’t. Listen, he won’t.

KHADIJAT 🌸🫧 :

I gotta leave but it hurts!!!

Mercy🥀 :

Okay thank you for letting me know 🥹

Lowkey :

🍓 :

but i love him

sad._.tok24 :

damn crying wasn’t on my list today…

chan is blad :

this is a sign to leave him?

x.0x0_jienibhellieve 💋 :

But We’re almost 8 years. No change at all.

alliyah.Hadaway :

And I still love him so much🧎🏾‍♀️