don’t get into the habit that because you’re living together it’s spending time together. it’s not. keep them dates going, change of scenery, get a routine when you do food shops, plans and make a joint calendar xx
2026-02-26 18:29:53
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MDLN :
Split. Your. Bills. By. Percentage. Income.
2026-02-27 18:22:50
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Elea 🫀🇵🇸 :
Implement a house ghost : for example when I am upset that my partner forgot to put up the bath mat after showering I don’t adress him directly. Instead I ask him to talk to Hugo our house ghost and if he could tell him to stop putting the bath mat down again. The point of this is to redirect the reminder and not make my partner feel attacked- it prevents heaps of bad moods also always good to be able to blame someone else and not ourselves
2026-02-26 21:09:46
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kelley.kaitlyn :
Make a joint email, use it for apartment communication and shared bills. It helps with communication and making sure you both share responsibility.
2026-02-26 00:55:58
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Hayley :
Don’t let roommate problems become relationship problems!! Aka dishes, trash, laundry, etc. anything you’d get annoyed with a roommate for, keep that separate from your relationship
2026-02-25 17:36:43
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LeahEmerson :
We do sweet treat Sunday! We get a sweet treat and talk about the upcoming week! No matter what we make the time to go on that date so we don’t become just roommates
2026-02-24 22:46:34
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Danaaaa :
Just because you live together does not mean it counts as spending time together. Don’t become roommates. Go on dates, chase each other & plan shit out as if you’re still just in the talking stage.
2026-02-26 21:39:55
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EMMA🍋🟩 :
never stop going out on dates and prioritizing romance!! alone time is okay too!
2026-02-25 23:52:31
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Kay Cox :
ALWAYS walk each other out in the mornings. It SUCKS to wake up, but taking 5 minutes to say bye at the door starts the day so much better and you can always go back to bed.
2026-03-18 02:13:02
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Cali 🌺 :
Listen to the girl that said have a cushion of money saved just in case. You never think you need it until you do!
2026-02-25 19:26:29
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serenity :
help another out. if you see chores aren’t getting done just simply ask if they’re doing alright before getting angry or frustrated. 9/10 it’s because they’re drained. moving out is stressful and you need to have open communication with another
2026-02-25 13:21:54
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rea🏃🏼♀️📚🧬 :
You don’t HAVE to go to bed at the same time. You’ll feel like you do but if one of you wants to sleep and the other doesn’t…just do your thing
2026-02-27 21:00:36
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livia :
2 bedrooms!!!!!!! must. gotta have ur own space, even if that means it’s just like a den, just somewhere to go that’s yours for a bit. realized after 2 months in our 1 bedroom lol
2026-02-24 22:56:00
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emilyhankss :
NEVER GO TO SLEEP ANGRY WITH EACH OTHER
2026-02-28 01:57:11
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★ chloe ★ :
get a cat
2026-02-27 15:05:37
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PAYTON | AZ Spray Tan Artist :
Nothing is ever that serious just have fun with each other
2026-02-25 18:18:43
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lafhintx :
Accept that someone else's definition of "clean" may not match yours. Effort > Perfection
2026-03-03 03:05:07
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lucia :
dont attack each other and play the blame game in any situation but just be like “hey this bothered me/this is how i felt could you/we work on that”
2026-02-24 21:31:51
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Bells :
Have your own separate hobbies and friends
2026-02-25 17:09:35
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Ashtyn :
Pick your battles 😅
2026-02-24 19:10:07
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coco :
TALK ABOUT ISSUES. like if you feel like you are becoming mom. or if you feel like you are becoming convenient. or if you are annoying the dishes aren’t put away. TALK!!
2026-02-24 22:57:43
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brook :
If it’s 50/50 bills then it’s 50/50 house chores!!!
2026-03-05 18:20:58
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Heather :
Separate blankets. Trust me.
2026-02-25 05:00:18
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TilsIsTheBest :
Both forget how your parents ran their house. This is YOUR house. Create your own ways of doing things. Also give each other grace! It can be a difficult transition when you have to be together 24/7, but it’s also worth it :)
2026-04-05 01:22:23
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Lea :
don’t try and split chores or have specific chores, if dishes need to be done whoever has more time in that moment does them etc. this doesn’t count as taking out the trash that is a blue job
2026-04-15 16:41:23
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