@abbyaitherapy: Harke: a painful memory you look back on with unexpected fondness. Here’s the psychology behind that. Your brain stores pain as protection. It builds armor around moments that once caught you off guard.. The breakup, the loss, the version of life that didn’t work out. But over time, the sting fades. What remains is perspective. The memory softens because you survived it. The danger isn’t the memory. It’s identifying with it. When we keep replaying old pain, we aren’t protecting ourselves.. We’re rehearsing it. Healing happens when you stop wearing yesterday’s wound as today’s identity. If you never take off the bandage, you’ll never know if the wound already healed.

benj_c3317 :

“armor gets heavy”

jess :

and then loose by daniel caesar started playing in the background

Sione_jj :

the last time I spent with my dad

BigMaso :

That time I worked at Taco Bell

one_n_only_landon_Vavra :

She killed me on the inside and I hate some of my memories of her but I like to remember the good times and I’m still fond to those memories even though they’re melancholy now

𝜝🍸 :

Letting go isn’t this peaceful, “I’m healed” moment people talk about. It’s more like realizing you’ve been holding onto something that already left you a long time ago. You just didn’t want to admit it.

rohan.kalra23 :

You can take off the bandage in front of others, but I’d rather do it alone so I don’t have to worry others

thefirstson06 :

Randomly I think about you, I may be over you but you cross my mind part of me still loves you a small part but the other part is glad, I learned a lot grew a lot and these past few years have been okay

MVP :

Soon as i heard the song i knew

THEONEBELLOWALL :

When I lost the loml

jason :

sense-in-nonsese :

“I learned to love the thing I most wish had not happened” “for what punishments of god are not gifts? So it would be ungrateful not to take everything with gratitude.” - Stephen Colbert

Hailey •enemies :

I didn’t sneeze but thank you for blessing me

hunnerbean8 :

I saw an exact same video, different voice. I don’t mind it, this message needs to be spread

chuafilms :

i scripted this :)

FINO :

Armor has gotten too heavy

☀️☆Chancer☆🌙 :

the death of my grandfather, the lowest I've ever been. but he taught the to be a better person and I thank him for it

Seus 𓆩✧𓆪 :

Noah White✌️ :

that time I moved away.

Brandon W© :

if you never take off the bandage you'll never know if the wound has healed

I ❤️ my beautiful mommy sophia :

you won’t know the wound has healed until you take off the bandage

blackinesep :

because if you never take off the bandage you would never know if the wound had heal?

Morte.cincta :

The last day i spent with my hb jaylin llj 11/15/21