@_patchu: and people wonder why i dont wanna have kids.. ur video just described my childhood. thank u, @hayley grace ! #fyp #parents

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aireselle
Joselle :
Until one day you notice some of that anger lives in you, too. Somehow, you become what you once feared.
2026-02-25 23:13:55
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summerishikawa
cocoa :
and once you find that gentleness you questioned yourself if this is all real.
2026-02-25 04:32:43
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alyricano
aly :
yes, i was born into an angry family. it wasn’t my choice, so i made a choice — i will be the water, not the flame. i will be the gentleness i always needed. because i know what it feels like to live in that heat, i refuse to be the reason someone else feels that way. i don’t want to watch the world burn. so i'll start by not burning the people around me.
2026-02-27 01:24:23
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averykirsten
Young Rose :
Growing up in the house where you always feel like you were walking on eggshells, i can say i never recovered. I have my own house and family but the feeling never fade away, i am always afraid to make mistakes as someone might hit me in the head or shout at me
2026-02-25 22:55:00
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laatespring
aura :
and when you finally found someone gentle, you also found yourself becoming the angry parent you swore you'd never become.
2026-02-26 22:49:32
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yennymaceda
yenyangszz🖤 :
and it created an avoidant person🥺
2026-02-26 09:40:36
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bubblespuff22
burstyourbubble🫧 :
I thought it was normal not until when I was in highschool where I visited my friend’s house and saw how gentle her parents were and the kind of bond they have. My eyes became teary before i even realized💔
2026-02-26 15:13:14
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wencraftyarts_456
WenCraftyArts :
when it's their fault but you always say to yourself that it's their first time being parents too, you so much understand it so you shattered inside. I hope soon things will get easier for me.
2026-02-26 11:28:15
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gisselleee.m1
♡ Gisselle ♡ :
But my parents are healing. And I appreciate them for that. Because my siblings didn’t get to experience what me and my older sister did. But the damage is already made… And It affected me but I am healing and learning. But I love my parents so muchhh they passed on traumas. But it will 100% stop with me.
2026-03-27 04:43:12
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msweae
msweae :
and not treating that gentle person right cuz u didnt learn how to manage your emotions.
2026-02-26 19:07:43
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ccwbry
ccwbry :
and sometimes if something really good is happening in your life, you start to question yourself if you deserve it and will think na it wont last long anyways
2026-02-26 19:51:25
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raiyan0410
Ryan :
Then suddenly you're the angry one in the relationship 🤔
2026-02-27 03:13:39
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vina.723
Vina :
Went completely silent when my friend said "From all of us, your family seems to be the most perfect one, unproblematic yk." Just realized how much I fake and hide a broken picture.
2026-02-28 13:53:47
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reezeeyuhhhh
reezeeyuhhhh :
until the parent starts being gentle for change and also because of guilt
2026-02-26 00:57:51
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roronoakai_
Kai :
I promised not to be like him when I grow older and if I’ll become a parent. I’m afraid I’ve become of what I hate now
2026-02-26 13:22:06
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ilovepandamilktea
Panda Panda :
and unknowingly you either became an expert in reading others mood or become an angry adult yourself.
2026-02-26 16:18:37
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presamante
🍓ྀི :
and you’ll realize the constant thought and feeling of being hated by everyone will never leave you
2026-02-26 14:14:35
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biancakiez
ikigai fluff :
baka thats also the reason why I alwasy move like everything is an emergency :( gusto ko na mawala pagka aligaga ko hay
2026-02-26 06:50:55
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joseparantar
Jose Parantar :
Random iyak sa hapon
2026-02-25 09:39:29
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shikenahbaloria04
Shikenah :
I hope and pray one day someone will be gentle to me
2026-02-26 10:31:01
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kshrsljs
whoskisha :
May book ba na ganito?
2026-02-26 02:37:19
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abbi_wh06
abs 🤍 :
Until I realised all that gentleness was staring back at me at the mirror shouting “you will break the cycle”
2026-02-27 16:53:33
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unicaaaa99
siUnicabato :
When I was younger I would often write to my journals how I would never be the angry man at home. But life has a way on making you what you hated. I'm sorry, younger me. I too was a disappointment to you.
2026-02-26 18:47:55
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jeonghawnyy
cheollihottie :
I wanna leave and I wanna live 😅 parang nasa cage lang, you can't also be you around them. Kainggit din ng other families na open sa isa't isa and chill lang. Hay one day lord, kami naman sana ipa experience mo ng life na peaceful and on our terms 🥺
2026-02-26 13:30:31
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zybltzr
MaeryZy :
Once you’ve made it out of a situation like this, you’d never choose to go back even if may time na nakaka miss yung mga tao sa bahay :))
2026-03-01 07:36:55
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