@sfram: the social idea that femme = pretty has ruined how i present myself. #nonbinary #femme #fem #lesbian #theythem

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drag0nqu33n
Terah :
I think a lot of Enbys also feel a lot of pressure to present in a different way than what would be considered the "norm" for their agab, because they truly don't identify fully with that gender, and even the other one doesn't feel right. societal expectations and pressure drive them into presenting certain ways to feel safe or to not be seen as their agab. A lot of people simply cannot grasp that femme or masc is not equal to gender. But I'm glad you're happier embracing a femme look. ❤️
2026-02-24 22:20:54
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sammayermusic
Sam Mayer :
i can’t speak on questioning gender identity but so much dysphoria around my sexuality as a bi person - how I present or want to present can swing so dramatically between wanting to model the men’s section of a store and wanting to look and feel very feminine and somehow this bleeds back into into questioning my sexuality as well
2026-02-25 09:31:51
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crossrxds_
flowers 💜 :
femme or masc or not androgynous or not we're valid and i hope you have a safe space to just be your truest self 💗
2026-02-25 02:47:17
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garlic_bread_enthusiast
Nova 💛🤍💜🖤 :
Femme presenting non binary here….i used to hate presenting femme and tried to be masc but it never felt right so back to femme presenting gremlin…non binary babes deserve to feel cutesy too no matter how they present 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
2026-02-24 21:57:44
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poe_drowsy
Poe Drowsy :
I hope that you will find yourself without feeling that societal pressure. Technically if you fear the mirror then it's not you. ✨👏
2026-02-24 23:32:38
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recoveringbutterfly
Liam ; :
You looked great then but even better now that you’re more comfortable in yourself!
2026-02-25 07:31:25
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eschlef
eschlef :
this is so interesting to me as a trans guy that is masculine but still likes to be pretty. (somewhat related) have you shared your hair routine? I'm growing mine out now and your style is goals. your curls look so healthy and shiny.
2026-02-25 20:48:39
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rellymoring
Relly Moring | Author 🇨🇦 :
This is so relatable! *currently growing out a super short haircut agonizingly slowly*
2026-03-08 03:39:06
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valtheswiftie
Val ( eras tour 5/27/23 ) :
I love your nails!! ( also I missed seeing you on my for you page )
2026-02-25 03:00:26
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ceralfred
CerAlfred :
you are pretty.
2026-03-01 00:48:50
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m_m9746
M_M :
You are beautiful
2026-02-28 16:02:23
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agnes.kurcaba
Agnes Kurcaba :
🌹🌹🌹
2026-04-04 07:49:19
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gsnedders
gsnedders :
As someone who’s followed you for a while, it’s been interesting to watch your gender expression change over time — figuring out who you are and figuring out who you want to be are both super difficult! What I can say is you definitely look happier now. 🖤
2026-02-25 18:34:40
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a.ricci13
Alex :
Don’t answer if you aren’t comfortable but would you still get top surgery if you had the ability to get it? Or have your thoughts changed or are you comfortable binding/taping?
2026-02-24 23:32:33
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autumnrosetv
AutumnRoseTV :
This is what I’ve been struggling with over the past 6 years. I had the reverse bisexuality experience where I thought I was gay until I found a guy attractive for the first time at 18. I’ve been wondering whether my gradual love for pink and wanting to dress feminine is something I would be comfortable with and feel comfortable doing, or whether I’m more comfortable keeping a butch fashion sense. I have started experimenting with jewellery and tinted lip balm in the past year tho
2026-02-24 23:54:25
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blonduose
blonduos 🦋🇵🇸 :
yeah i feel ugly too but i will not change for anyone since i dont have to post myself et thankfully
2026-02-25 15:49:10
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it5venus
Johanna :
babe tbh you’re so hot in both ways PLEASE😩
2026-02-25 00:15:24
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strangestarcosplay
TheTinySparrow (they/them) :
I’m a masc-androgenyous non binary person and when I was in the closet, trying to be feminine like hyper feminine I felt so ugly and uncomfortable. Now I’m masculine and many people criticize my appearence. I was called ugly by not only one but several casting directors and I always get those comments. As an actor (who doesn’t have any relatives in the industry) It’s a huge struggle and just when I healed from past traumas about my appearence and started to accept myself and to see myself as good looking, I am again starting to feel ugly because these comments go so deep.
2026-02-24 22:28:23
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rumew
ru :
cant relate, i find androgyny to be the pinnacle of beauty
2026-02-25 03:11:52
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primethyme30
Primethyme :
No you’re not
2026-02-25 06:12:37
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