@drsarahhensley: You won’t know what hit you until the anxiety starts…they are pulling away for what seems like no reason. You must understand this is deeply rooted in their nervous systems rejecting intimacy. YOUR nervous system needs secure attachment, or you’ll be left chasing, explaining, questioning and trying to do whatever it takes to get the love back they once gave. #Love #relationships #avoidantattachment #healing #attachmentstyle

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mayacreatesallthetime
mayacreatesallthetime :
Yeah, it’s the most confusing thing ever. Roller coaster but it’s like addiction, you miss the highs. You think well, no one is perfect. Maybe it’s me blah blah blah
2026-02-25 00:47:28
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jule_y
Jane :
I noticed he keeps focusing on my flaws😔
2026-02-25 05:07:03
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queenbsc
𝕭rі𝗍𝗍ᥲᥒᥡ ・❥・ :
My avoidant has been super consistent with me since day 1 however the warmth of our conversations have definitely changed. Instead of using his words now he’s using actions which to me matters more. I think he’s actively trying to heal his avoidant attachment & I’m gonna stick beside him. ❤️
2026-02-25 15:04:09
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fnwidow
FNWidow :
and then I am an overthinker so this is hard.
2026-02-25 00:46:28
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marenjoandco
Maren Jo + Co :
This happened to me 4 1/2 months in. I am gutted - and my normal secure self fell into the anxious cycle. - now I’m trying to getting back.
2026-03-05 22:53:29
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healing.anxious.a
Healing Anxious Attachement :
If someone makes you feel anxious more than safe, that’s information.
2026-02-26 18:15:03
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justcassidy42
justcassidy42 :
My husband is..he left me 9 months ago a few days after our second was born. He is only focusing on the negative stuff from the past and he’s thinking it was just yesterday…but it wasn’t because I didn’t much work on myself over the years and obscene calmer and more loving and understanding than ever the last 2 years
2026-02-25 00:42:27
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downtoeat_dte
tk011188 :
This is exactly what happened to me.
2026-02-25 04:36:58
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savvvyyyysolana
SavvvyyyySolana :
Literally going through this right now. Worst experience ever lol
2026-03-11 21:26:06
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rachelfunkydiva
Rachel Funk :
We have decades of friendship as our foundation, so I thought I was special. The honeymoon period lasted longest with me, but it still ended into a less than roommates situation. I'm losing a lifetime friend and the husband I've waited my whole life for. It's soul crushing.
2026-03-14 09:56:08
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deb.fehser
Deb Fehser :
how can one deal with this? so am I fool for falling someone just like this?
2026-02-25 14:55:47
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sabrina07352
Sayda Sadik :
i feel like nobody warns you that long distance means you have to relearn how to be together in person every time you visit because youve both been living independent lives
2026-02-25 13:48:11
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blueismyfavcolor6
Cristhian 😉 :
My ex just called me and said he was going to take me out to dinner for our anniversary. We broke up a year ago…. Talk about whiplash
2026-02-25 13:34:31
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mfrancojr
Mark Franco Jr :
Once again, another one I needed to hear. Going through this and it’s weighing so heavy on my own mental health. I need to detach and finally be free I feel.
2026-02-26 17:48:56
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vikkigorman
Vikki Gorman | Realtor :
Because of you, I learned I had one!!! I’m beyond exhausted 😩 How to deal? It’s a minute by minute challenge.
2026-02-25 04:25:45
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ia65560
ia :
It’s called losing interest
2026-04-11 13:04:25
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tvtt399
T :
Good god I had no idea this existed until my last relationship. Went from where we’d live and being told I’m the most amazing person he’d ever met to being criticized for everything and left within weeks post first big conflict.
2026-02-26 00:49:43
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ibrunaholandaa
ibrunaholandaa :
The accuracy of this is sad
2026-02-25 06:24:13
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aboyd513
A Boyd :
I wish I had TikTok 20 years ago 🙃
2026-03-10 03:57:33
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nnmmnnmmaa
Nmna :
So what do I do? Break up?
2026-03-14 19:29:00
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jjhagan
♥️🩵💫Jenn 💫💙♥️ :
Mine came back a few times!
2026-03-27 04:52:02
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carebearstare_04
Carebear Stare 💪 :
Literally and figuratively
2026-02-25 01:16:26
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movement.with.becca
movement.with.becca :
This just happened to me!!
2026-04-26 13:27:19
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oliveloverrr
o l i v e ♡ :
Word for fucking word what I just went through
2026-04-17 14:25:37
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leeleelove_
leeleelove🌼 :
This makeup on you looks beautiful
2026-03-09 14:04:44
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